LOL. Matt had to pack for a weekend away with one of his women =POriginally posted by dave134
Matt flaked? This is a **** test man and you need to pass! Don't return any of Matt's calls for a week! You need to let him know who is wearing the pants in this relationship.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Field Report: My first night out with Matt ala Casanova.
- Thread starter Drex
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Oh come on Oxide, where in the Cities would you find HB? The State Fair? We are SO lacking up here. Makes a guy want to move to North DakotaOriginally posted by Oxide
Mac come over to MN, ill test your game
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Hey...
If Sosuave wants to sponser a DJ in the field, I will go anywhere!
I do travel so I fare quite well in SF, SD, Chigago, Seattle, Tulsa.....been there done that. All women are the same, you just gotta sort of adapt to their surrounding. Sometimes it does help to be the stranger in town, chicks dig the dark stranger types.
M.A.C.
If Sosuave wants to sponser a DJ in the field, I will go anywhere!
I do travel so I fare quite well in SF, SD, Chigago, Seattle, Tulsa.....been there done that. All women are the same, you just gotta sort of adapt to their surrounding. Sometimes it does help to be the stranger in town, chicks dig the dark stranger types.
M.A.C.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
In other words...yes. If a person can master the 'game' we DJ's hold so close to our heart then it doesn't matter where you are, what language you speak, you can be liked and sought after.
M.A.C.
digitalrat
Senior Don Juan
wheres a good place to find Aldo shoes?
I have to disagree with you about the girl's boyfriend being an AFC. He doesn't talk to her much, so he doesn't smother her, and give her all his attention, which is the way to go. And when he sees her talking to another guy, he's indifferent (read: calm, confident, not threatened), which is also the way to go. So i don't really see how this makes him an AFC.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
The guy was clam, confident but to me he felt a bit threatened. I've talk to this and his girl a few times when out and he acts sort of goofy, and the girl is very flirty. Not a big deal but a DJ could easily spoof this guys thing with this girl. I wouldn't do it, but Drex was onto something about he seemed a bit AFCish.
M.A.C.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
BUMP!!!
I remember reading this FR by Drex a year or so ago and thought it rocked because it was a tag along with a reputable DJ and was thorough as hell. They're long reads but I feel that there is valuable information contained within them.
Field Report: My first night out with Matt ala Casanova.
Field Report: My Second Night Out With Matt ala Casanova
Field Report: My Third Night Out With Matt ala Casanova.
Field Report: My fourth night out with Matt ala Casanova.
I remember reading this FR by Drex a year or so ago and thought it rocked because it was a tag along with a reputable DJ and was thorough as hell. They're long reads but I feel that there is valuable information contained within them.
Field Report: My first night out with Matt ala Casanova.
Field Report: My Second Night Out With Matt ala Casanova
Field Report: My Third Night Out With Matt ala Casanova.
Field Report: My fourth night out with Matt ala Casanova.
Next time you two go out you should check out Electra Night Club in West Lebanon. It's not too far from Dartmouth College and although I never go there anymore, when it first opened there were around 300 people there every Saturday night. Not sure if it's that busy now or not, though.