Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
...and Superman X, just let me know. It would be a good experience.
M.A.C.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Field Report: My first night out with Matt ala Casanova.
- Thread starter Drex
- Start date
M.A.C.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
digitalrat
Senior Don Juan
I really need to hook up with seasoned DJ down here in Miami. It would be a great experience.
When i become wealthy enough, i will make sure to visit every man on this board who seems to be my type of the person to hang out with.
Congrats matt, you are on this list. I am 18 now, but in couple years we should definately hit it off with the hotties around the world
p.s. post a pic of yourself and your car, would be interesting to see.
Congrats matt, you are on this list. I am 18 now, but in couple years we should definately hit it off with the hotties around the world
p.s. post a pic of yourself and your car, would be interesting to see.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
wow...matt, you are such a great guy! so generous...(sighs adoringly)...
this post was extremely well written, btw. props for that alone! wish someone would respond to my fantasy thread with this much detail...
this post was extremely well written, btw. props for that alone! wish someone would respond to my fantasy thread with this much detail...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Eyecandie4ya
Senior Don Juan
Anyone that comes to Atlanta and is over 21, give me a holla on my email.
Good post Drex and props to Matt for showing some skills!
Good post Drex and props to Matt for showing some skills!
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
I don't know how to take that...iggi are you female?
M.A.C.
Matt and one of his women and me and a girl I've been (sorta) dating met up at a bar tonight for some drinks. I just had to add a little bit of irony/humor to this thread. The girl that I was with during conversation mentioned how Matt must have learned how to be a pimp from ME, hahahaha. God I had to really hold back from bursting out laughing, so did Matt. Ohhhhh you just had to be there, and you have to have read this field report to understand what I mean.
Anyways, we're going out tomorrow night, should have a new field report then.
Anyways, we're going out tomorrow night, should have a new field report then.
Oscar Wilde
Master Don Juan
hehe, now that's irony
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Drex...
You didn't describe my women to these kind folks. Let them know what a true DJ reels in!
M.A.C.
You didn't describe my women to these kind folks. Let them know what a true DJ reels in!
M.A.C.
Lone_raider
Senior Don Juan
That sounds like an awesome experience! I live in Rhode Island, I'm usually in New Hampshire once every year or two, I think it would be great to learn some new tips in real time!
Well lets see, she's hot, she's bi, she lets Matt see whoever he wants and she's into 3somes. She exudes sex and confidenceOriginally posted by Matt ala Casanova
Drex...
You didn't describe my women to these kind folks. Let them know what a true DJ reels in!
M.A.C.
She's a keeper!
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Why thank you young jedi!Originally posted by Drex
Well lets see, she's hot, she's bi, she lets Matt see whoever he wants and she's into 3somes. She exudes sex and confidence
She's a keeper!
She is a lil hotty! My HB9!M.A.C.
You've got it the complete opposite.
He comes across confident in that he can let guys talk to his GF and isn't concerned they are a threat. He comes across as not needing to have her attention or warn other guys off, by e.g. going over and putting his arm round her, kissing her etc in fornt of them.
If you let your chick do this (talk to other guys when out) it drives them wild. It provides good challenge to them and comes across as confidence. In fact you can let them suck up that attention to get them horny for a good fvck later on.
Do the opposite and you will come across controlling and insecure. That will push the chick away.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Field Report: My first night out with Matt ala Casanova.
It's going to click with him sooner than later!
M.A.C.
He's learning. I did give him the low down of what he did wrong and what he should do the next time.
It's going to click with him sooner than later!
M.A.C.
It has always been obvious to me that Matt knows what he is doing, but a lot of the "way things work" is geographically-dependent. I would like to see how well Matt fares in San Diego.
Great post! It belongs in the DJ Bible. Mr. Hill! Where are you!?
Great post! It belongs in the DJ Bible. Mr. Hill! Where are you!?
Unfortunately due to time constraints Matt and I were unable to go out tonight. I was anticipating writing my 2nd report but it'll have to wait until next week
We did meet up last night at a bar but we both brought women so there wasnt a whole lot of field-reporting to do. We mostly sat and had drinks/played pool, worked on conversation skills (not that he needed to) and C&F/neghits on the women. Was fun though!
We did meet up last night at a bar but we both brought women so there wasnt a whole lot of field-reporting to do. We mostly sat and had drinks/played pool, worked on conversation skills (not that he needed to) and C&F/neghits on the women. Was fun though!
One on One
Master Don Juan
Matt flaked? This is a **** test man and you need to pass! Don't return any of Matt's calls for a week! You need to let him know who is wearing the pants in this relationship.Originally posted by Drex
Unfortunately due to time constraints Matt and I were unable to go out tonight. I was anticipating writing my 2nd report but it'll have to wait until next week
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.