"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Field Report: My date was great. Now how to keep her interested

NoMoreAFC

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Ok guys i met her yesterday night and everything was better than what i expected, she was really far better from what i've seen on pics and the webcam i rated her a 7 now i rate her as a solid 8, inteligent and sexy as hell. She picked me up at my house and we went for a coffee at a bar by the beach, while we were talking i suddenly felt that i had to kiss her and she replied, we left and walked by the beach till dawn we saw sun rising and slept together in her car then we had breakfast together. this was great, lots of interest from her, lots of mutual kino, kissing, it was way better than what i've planned. i like this girl... i really do, and she likes me too i noticed that, her eye contact, smiles, always taking my hand in the street and resting on my shoulder. she's 26, helluva lot different from the girls i've met ( 18 and 19 years old ), ok but now i have to know how to keep her interest in me, this is where i **** things up everytime.

She asked me to pay her visit on sunday which i'm planning to do, but i need to have more better convo skills and more confidence in myself, she also sent me a txt message later saying that she enjoyed being with me and that i make her feel happy, but didn't say anything more.

well, i wanna see some advice and coments here fellow djs, what have i done wrong and what have i did right.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thats fycking awesome man!!!!!

I bet you are massively excited! awesome!


just chilll! and be the same guy you were getting her this into you in the first place.

your a cool guy...dont doubt the power of the DJ FORCE!

:woo:
 
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