"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Field Report: My date was great. Now how to keep her interested

NoMoreAFC

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Ok guys i met her yesterday night and everything was better than what i expected, she was really far better from what i've seen on pics and the webcam i rated her a 7 now i rate her as a solid 8, inteligent and sexy as hell. She picked me up at my house and we went for a coffee at a bar by the beach, while we were talking i suddenly felt that i had to kiss her and she replied, we left and walked by the beach till dawn we saw sun rising and slept together in her car then we had breakfast together. this was great, lots of interest from her, lots of mutual kino, kissing, it was way better than what i've planned. i like this girl... i really do, and she likes me too i noticed that, her eye contact, smiles, always taking my hand in the street and resting on my shoulder. she's 26, helluva lot different from the girls i've met ( 18 and 19 years old ), ok but now i have to know how to keep her interest in me, this is where i **** things up everytime.

She asked me to pay her visit on sunday which i'm planning to do, but i need to have more better convo skills and more confidence in myself, she also sent me a txt message later saying that she enjoyed being with me and that i make her feel happy, but didn't say anything more.

well, i wanna see some advice and coments here fellow djs, what have i done wrong and what have i did right.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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frivolousz21

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thats fycking awesome man!!!!!

I bet you are massively excited! awesome!


just chilll! and be the same guy you were getting her this into you in the first place.

your a cool guy...dont doubt the power of the DJ FORCE!

:woo:
 
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