"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Field report: much fuss over nothing

ogre

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this is an update to "she brought her sister along"

I just came back from her place. it was no big deal. The good news is, for starters, the address she gave me was correct. I thought for sure I was gonna end up on a wild goose chase down in gangsta-land. so far so good. whoo-hoo! And she was home! imagine that! whoo-hoo!

Yes it's nice to be treated with dignity and respect. (for a change)

anyway we just hung out in the kitchen for about an hour. No singing. after some brief polite introductions, Mom, sis and bro left is alone. Basically I have the family's approval.

I've been reading up on "fast seduction 101" made some attempts to shift convo into seduction talk, mirroring, kino, etc. I got a little wussy in the end but I did it in a joking way. See, my birthday is coming up (I told her I'm going to be 88) She was sweet and polite, but bottom line is thanks but no thanks.

Face it. who am I kidding? I'm old, she's young. Not gawnna happen. but it was all good practice, and a lot easier and more pleasant than I expected.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The first step is always the hardest. Sometimes you win, other times you learn.
 
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