TheMonkeyKing
Master Don Juan
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Went up to my mate's engagement do last night. Nice pub, relatively cheap booze, didn't get too hammered as trying to cut right down and remain in control. A fashionable part of town, lots of nice-looking females around.
Though I'd make an effort, put on a well fitted shirt and trousers; my quads, delts and traps are looking better if I do say so myself. Walked out of Waterloo station and was basically stared down by a filthy-looking 5'10 brunette 8.5. Was feeling good.
Probably about 10-15 people in the party. Even split guys to girls; may be a few more women. Probably a few 7's, a couple of 8's and one 9. I enquired about the blonde 9, she really is right up my street. Alas, recently married to some average but rich-looking dude. She didn't acknowledge all night but seemed even intimidated by me while I sat opposite, hubby right next to her - seemed to be mate-guarding a little. Tobe fair, while I was sitting near them, they seemed a bit bored of each other.
Had a brief conversation with one of the 8's when she mistook me for the groom-to-be (we have the same name). Chatted a bit with wifey-to-be as it was the first time we met. Otherwise catching up with my mates and had a convo with one of the guys.
I wasn't staying out long as I'm going away next week and preserving funds. But, towards the end of the night, all the lads in the group (who seem like they are a regular social circle) started getting quite anxious about the high-frequency mother-henning that was happening. My mate was getting particularly disenchanted, as it took the group of girls about half an hour to sort a few drinks at a largely empty bar. He and another guy were basically saying it's always like that - takes two hours to find somewhere to eat, where everyone is in agreement, blah blah blah.
To be fair to her, 9 was just keeping her distance and seemed the most chilled out; probably well aware that she is the apex female.
If I had to draw a conclusion:
-Socials with a 'girlfriend' or wife is not always 'fun'. You're basically signing up to hang out with a bunch of other bored blokes, just looking on in amazed wonder at the squabbling women, many of whom you'd not normally give the time of day to.
-Not a good sign that my mate is already bemoaning the lifestyle at his own engagement party! His missus seems pretty sound though.
-The entitlement complex of a medium value woman is exaggerated in when in a group, especially as she reaches the end of her prime.
-Women, regardless of marital status, will ignore you for two reasons; they are completely uninterested, or, in the case of this 9, they simply don't trust themselves.
Though I'd make an effort, put on a well fitted shirt and trousers; my quads, delts and traps are looking better if I do say so myself. Walked out of Waterloo station and was basically stared down by a filthy-looking 5'10 brunette 8.5. Was feeling good.
Probably about 10-15 people in the party. Even split guys to girls; may be a few more women. Probably a few 7's, a couple of 8's and one 9. I enquired about the blonde 9, she really is right up my street. Alas, recently married to some average but rich-looking dude. She didn't acknowledge all night but seemed even intimidated by me while I sat opposite, hubby right next to her - seemed to be mate-guarding a little. Tobe fair, while I was sitting near them, they seemed a bit bored of each other.
Had a brief conversation with one of the 8's when she mistook me for the groom-to-be (we have the same name). Chatted a bit with wifey-to-be as it was the first time we met. Otherwise catching up with my mates and had a convo with one of the guys.
I wasn't staying out long as I'm going away next week and preserving funds. But, towards the end of the night, all the lads in the group (who seem like they are a regular social circle) started getting quite anxious about the high-frequency mother-henning that was happening. My mate was getting particularly disenchanted, as it took the group of girls about half an hour to sort a few drinks at a largely empty bar. He and another guy were basically saying it's always like that - takes two hours to find somewhere to eat, where everyone is in agreement, blah blah blah.
To be fair to her, 9 was just keeping her distance and seemed the most chilled out; probably well aware that she is the apex female.
If I had to draw a conclusion:
-Socials with a 'girlfriend' or wife is not always 'fun'. You're basically signing up to hang out with a bunch of other bored blokes, just looking on in amazed wonder at the squabbling women, many of whom you'd not normally give the time of day to.
-Not a good sign that my mate is already bemoaning the lifestyle at his own engagement party! His missus seems pretty sound though.
-The entitlement complex of a medium value woman is exaggerated in when in a group, especially as she reaches the end of her prime.
-Women, regardless of marital status, will ignore you for two reasons; they are completely uninterested, or, in the case of this 9, they simply don't trust themselves.