"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Field Report - Mall Now, Bars Later

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What exactly are you guys looking for a breakdown on so I know to pay attention to it when I'm out there.
What you might consider is to set up the gofund me so it's clear it's only for incidentals, to pay for club fees, or any kind of "experiments" requested by members.

If the mods allow it, put (and refer to) the gofund me link in your sig or something. Then just keep doing data driven experiments. Try different techniques etc., post audios, etc. Make sure people to give $$ to the gofund me know they can request certain experimental techniques, etc.

The threads and donations would probably grow simultaneously. The more play-by-play threads you make, (and refer to the gofundme page inside) the more $$ you'll get, the more ideas you'll get, the more threads you'll start.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What you might consider is to set up the gofund me so it's clear it's only for incidentals, to pay for club fees, or any kind of "experiments" requested by members.

If the mods allow it, put (and refer to) the gofund me link in your sig or something. Then just keep doing data driven experiments. Try different techniques etc., post audios, etc. Make sure people to give $$ to the gofund me know they can request certain experimental techniques, etc.

The threads and donations would probably grow simultaneously. The more play-by-play threads you make, (and refer to the gofundme page inside) the more $$ you'll get, the more ideas you'll get, the more threads you'll start.
Here's the gofundme link:

https://www.gofundme.com/gas-to-travel-to-a-bigger-mall

Yea good idea. I'll total the number of everything up and add more details for you guys. Tomorrow I plan on going to Denver and burning the place down

And yea it'd be awesome if the mods let me create a signature to advertise
 
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Some unsolicited feedback.

Put a longer explanation. Right now it sounds like "give me money so I can go hit on girls"

Make it sound like an interactive social experiment. Link to this thread for an example of what you're doing. Mention that you'll take reader feedback and implement that into your activities.

If you can, make a video explaining all that and put up that instead of a headshot.

Ideally, people giving money will feel like they are participating in a "virtual reality experience." So they'll donate, and then come to Sosuave, sign up and follow any threads you post, and then pipe in and make suggestions, which you will implement into your game.
 

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Some unsolicited feedback.

Put a longer explanation. Right now it sounds like "give me money so I can go hit on girls"

Make it sound like an interactive social experiment. Link to this thread for an example of what you're doing. Mention that you'll take reader feedback and implement that into your activities.

If you can, make a video explaining all that and put up that instead of a headshot.

Ideally, people giving money will feel like they are participating in a "virtual reality experience." So they'll donate, and then come to Sosuave, sign up and follow any threads you post, and then pipe in and make suggestions, which you will implement into your game.
I see where you're coming from. I added a bit more charm into the description and put a YouTube video up there
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Beforeimgone, what city do you live in? I have $10,000 in fvck you money I might throw, but I have to think of the terms
 
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