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Field report - Leather Jackets are awesome

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Went out last night. Had a great time.

Leather jackets really do a lot for a man's attractiveness.
I noticed it today in the supermarket, a nice girl was checkin out my facial features, just because I was wearing a hot leather jacket. I'm flattered.

In the bars/clubs I got a few compliments. 1 chick said I was handsome, then a few hours later another started raving and ranting at me, saying how I'm not goodlooking, and that I'm a hipster and she's not a hipster so everything is wrong. Then she started saying how she was a *****, then she complained that I didn't like her.
So I told her: Why would I like you after you just ranted at me? Even telling me I'm not goodlooking?
She: But you are goodlooking.
Anyways I just leaned back from then on and let her rant and rave some more. Finished my beer and went outside.

Started talking to a really nice hot blond who I had noticed checking me out earlier. Well she took my hand and led me to another location.
I am thinking that I should have been more aggressive because I got no make-out. I took her number though. Then she started crying and I was a little put off, but I walked her home, which is something I usually wouldn't do, but I figured I would build some rapport anyway. She wanted me to Whatsapp her today. I suppose she likes my looks.

Anyway today I go to the local coffee shop and I see a super duper cuteypie sitting there talkin to some of my friends (which are all 30+, btw, which leaves me as the best candidate in such a situation).
I talked to her for a good while, we had some laughs. She asked me a few questions, she asked me what I did etc. She apparantly is doing an Au Pair job here in Amsterdam, taking a year off from school.
I told her I would like to show her around Amsterdam, and she said that would be nice. I asked if I should take her number, she said yeah, and so I took her phone and typed it in. She didn't have credit so I couldn't call myself to get the number. She seems even more fun than the dutch one whose number I got last night - not a screaming crybaby for instance.
So the only problem is that I don't have her number, but she seemed really 'real' and I think she will call me.

I am feeling a bit weak for not offering to show her the park straight away. Told her I would like to show her around but I have to study now. I should have gone to the park with her, maybe bought her some credit on the way and then I would have had the number. That way I would have real contact with her straight away instead of having to wait for her to call me like a b*tch.

She was cute as a button though.
 

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ok thanks for the advice. I agree on the first two, but the last one wasn't purposely ****-testing me, she simply had no credit.

Was my mistake for not inviting her straight away.

Too bad.
 

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Hell yeah, I had this killer vintage leather I got from New York. Was like 30 years old and I know some Don Juan killed major vag in his time wearing this. When it came to my time with this beast, I tore it up. Something about a good leather that get's women looking at you in a different way.
 

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That's exactly what it is. Something like this will get a man plenty of poon.

Mine looks kind of like that, but different.
 

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Have you considered that maybe the leather jacket didn't make you more attractive, but rather your extra confidence from believing you were more attractive actually made you more attractive?
 

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Don't forget a motorcycle to go with that. Bıtches talk a lot of shıt, but they like it when you have a bike and wear leathers. That shıt will be in style even after Death Stars will be invented.

Get the Mandarin collar moto ones. I still wear my 23 year old MC that's massively worn-in every now and then in the spring, I give zero fux. Leather is bad ass.
 

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I was out riding this week and stopped at an Arby's to eat. It was late, the place was empty, and I'm pretty sure the girl who waited on me would have let me fvck her on the counter.

"Oh ma god, that jacket is NICE. I mean it's like really nice and stuff. You can just tell that it's nice. I really like it, " she said.

Then she stared at me with glossy eyes and open mouth for a long awkward silence until the guy in the back finally made my food.

Was she hot? No, not at all, and that's how you know this is a true story. She reminded me of a younger version of Marge Simpson's sisters, Patty and Selma. Hot girls won't be so pathetically obvious when they hit on you because of your leather jacket, but they will still like the jacket, because leather jackets are awesome. Or at least mine is.

And yes, having a motorcycle helps. But you don't have to have a lot of money to ride. I paid $600 for my current bike, and girls can barely tell it apart from my last bike, an R1 I paid $6k for. I'm not trying to look cool; I just want to get 60 mpg. The motorcycle is economical and the jacket is safety equipment, but they don't have that image. Instead it's more like bad boy pvssy magnet.

Here's a pic of my $600 bike, as well as proof of its power to attract pvssy: http://i186.photobucket.com/albums/x252/dotheopposite/0523141953_zps68689ee0.jpg
 

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Lol, I've read quite a few threads here talking about how leather jackets are a magic bullet, basically. I wouldn't go that far, but it's a good look. I don't think you can compare it to "the little black dress" or linguerie, because part of the appeal of those things is that they are revealing.
 

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zekko said:
Lol, I've read quite a few threads here talking about how leather jackets are a magic bullet, basically. I wouldn't go that far, but it's a good look. I don't think you can compare it to "the little black dress" or linguerie, because part of the appeal of those things is that they are revealing.

Ah, but how would we look in those little black dresses??? THAT is the question!:eek:
 

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I get mixed results with my leather jacket. Some girls like it, others don't. it's very polarizing. My particular jacket is one of those Diesel brand "fashion" jackets. Being in a warmer climate I can only wear it on colder nights (Less than 69 degrees F) and during the fall/winter months. Wearing a white dress shirt with black tie really gets me the look from girls.

Guys, remember that the man makes the jacket, not the other way around. I've met plenty of chodes that wear leather jackets yet have no game.
 

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When I went to school in Tampa, I had a nylon windbreaker jacket that was just gold. Girls would wear skimpy clothes because it was hot during the day, but then they'd get cold when the sun went down. Any girl that asked to wear the jacket was hitting on me; that was about as direct as a girl would get. Maybe one could say it was white knightish to let a girl wear your jacket when she's cold, but I almost always ended up fvcking the girl.

Chivalry and white knight-ness can be a great card to play if that is what a woman will respond to. The difference between it being DJ and AFC is whether or not your actually believe the bullsh!t.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
[H]aving a motorcycle helps. But you don't have to have a lot of money to ride. I paid $600 for my current bike, and girls can barely tell it apart from my last bike, an R1 I paid $6k for. I'm not trying to look cool; I just want to get 60 mpg. The motorcycle is economical and the jacket is safety equipment, but they don't have that image. Instead it's more like bad boy pvssy magnet.

Here's a pic of my $600 bike, as well as proof of its power to attract pvssy: http://i186.photobucket.com/albums/x252/dotheopposite/0523141953_zps68689ee0.jpg
This is very true. Most women who ask you what kind of motorcycle your ride--once the topic has come up--are clueless when you mention the model. They seem to base the bike's level of coolness on what it looks like and whether it is well taken care of rather than the year and model. An inexpensive bike that that is clean and well pampered could look better than an expensive bike that is dirty.

Has anyone blown kisses to or given women the nod while wearing your helmet? I have been tempted to do this--which seems like a win-win--especially if your helmet is tinted. She can't tell what you look like if you are rejected; and if she responds positively, you get an ego boost.
 

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VladPatton said:
Ah, but how would we look in those little black dresses??? THAT is the question!:eek:
Some guys think that men are just as attractive physically as women are, and I have never believed that. They have the looks, we are built for strength and doing things. The fact that your suggestion summons up a rather hideous image is partial proof of that. Then there's also the fact that female strippers, porn stars, nude models and such are in far more demand than the male variety.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Has anyone blown kisses to or given women the nod while wearing your helmet?

If you just turn your head and look at her, it's obvious you're checking the girl out. I keep getting looks from girls who are walking with guys. And the guy will be scowling. I'm sure I've been the cause of an argument or two.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
If you just turn your head and look at her, it's obvious you're checking the girl out.


I keep getting looks from girls who are walking with guys. And the guy will be scowling. I'm sure I've been the cause of an argument or two.
I have been there too. Sometimes, the guy is just an AFC, want-to-be boyfriend or an orbiter that wants the girl. If they show interest in you, the guy will probably be puzzled as to what it is one has or get territorial. If that's the guy's gf, it is not one's fault that she finds one attractive.

I agree, though. It could lead to arguments very easily.

As to the helmet situation, I am not afraid to let girls know I find them attractive. In fact, I think it is better to get shut down immediately than to wonder what would have ever happened or to be strung along.
 

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Whatever you ride, just make sure it has a back seat. :up:
 
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