field report....it doesnt matter what you say

[_sideways_]

Ok so it doesn't matter what u say to a girl to get the interaction started. I was at the train station waiting for my train...spotted a cute Russian girl wearing cute boots, coat, etc...looking proper. So I got nervous and couldn't say hi at first. So I accidentally drop my phone on the ground and I curse at myself or whatever cuz it sucks to drop ur phone. Now I pick it up and since she turned to look , because naturally when someone drops a cell and it makes noise, you turn ur head as a natural reaction...so when she does that I tell her how unlucky I am that I just cracked my phone....show her my now ruined phone...she smiles and brings out her cell phone that is also cracked. So we have a laugh at that. Ok...the real truth is that my cell has been cracked for two months now, but I made it seem like it just happened. So we get to talking about phones and whatever. We both get on the train and we sit together and talk some more about her life, my life...etc. one hour later, we arrive at her destination....I offer to take her to a bar for drinks, but change my mind and get some food instead. After we eat, I offer to show her around town....she's studying abroad and is not from this town...she agrees, I buy a bottle of wine and we go sit on a bench in the park...at 11 at night. I get all close to her and start with the sweet talk. She asks if I pick up random girls a lot and I reassure her that I saw something special in her. ;-). Ok so now its colder and I suggest we get a hotel room and continue our party indoors. She says that nothing physical is going to happen. I agree with her and after a little hesitation from her, we r on a taxi on the way to a hotel. Ok ...5 minutes in the hotel and I'm lying with her in bed and cuddling or what not and sure she stops me once or twice, but I get her hot and horny and soon enough, she's mine. Mind you, I am not ugly, but I was dressed in gym clothes and was tired after a long day of work, so I think my vocal game was good this time. We fall asleep and I escort her to her place and I take a taxi home in a few hours..I'm still high writing this from the experience...it all started with me saying something stupid about my broken cell phone, which anybody would say that its no big deal. But all she did was smile and say hers is broken also....then I made a comment about her boots and voila. Instant passionate nigjt with a Russian hottie. So it doesn't matter what you say, as long as you say it in a friendly carefree manner.

 

[YAboi]

but it matters how u say it. Always come out with whats comfortable with your personality. If ur a dull guy then say something dull but be proud of urself when saying it...

 

[dmvdav]

Exactly, it doesn't matter what you say, only how you say it.
That may be the best "secret" to approaching girls.

If I see that spark in her eyes, i'm going to say something, it doesn't matter what.