Field Report in turkey.

[Feskaren]

Well im a newbie... i have known this board for a while but this is the first time i have tried to go out and hit on girls systematically. I just feel like sharing. actually i hit on just two girls hehe, but anyway. I went to an expensive posh-kind of place in Turkey called Reina. Tons of hot girls but i think most of them r gold diggers. anyway. i got eye contact with a girl on the othe side of the bar. i go over and say do u speak eng. shes like yes. im like; u look like an int. person. she says what do u want? i say; to get to know u better. she says i dont believe ure not turkish. (im from Norway but im very dark i look turkish ok) i get put off and say... does it matter wher im from...? shes like i dont think ure turk. please go... and im like im from norway! and shes like please go! and i say; is this the way u always treat a handsome young stranger trying to give u a compliment. and she pulls her shoulder as and sighs and says please GO (or somthing) u r turkish... go!! and i leave...

i circle arond... i c thos really hot girl standing at a table.. i freeze and pass her... shes w her friend and two older guys..( all the young girls is with some old fat and probably rich guy in this place) i go a round and to the bathroom.. i psyche up and go out to approach her anyway... she was so hot... ( like a young version of kyla cole) i go up and toauch her arm... i say whats your name... i thouaght she would rejact me but she says ... something in turksih... her name i think and im like what?! and she repeats... and i understand that she tells me her name but i cant really hear it... its some weird turkish name... so i say ok... u look like an interesting person... im baffled that she actually told me her name.... she says why.... ( music is very loud... i can hardly hear) so i say i want to get to know u better.... ...one of the guys interupts ant talks to me in turk... i say what?... and he turns to his friend who talks eng. he says can i help u.... i say i just want to talk to her.... and im like u want to dance ( to the girl offcourse) she says that she wants to stay there at the table.... the guys says... u can talk to the aother girls.... ( lol guess he was intimadated) i know i should have said... hey you cant talk to the other girls, i like this one... but i just said... itt was nice to meet u to the girl and left... arhggg... well anyway.. im little drunk soorry for typos... well giv em som advice and encouragemnt please.. i would appriicatae it....

 

[Feskaren]

i had fun. i laughed afterwards because she talked to me in a friendly way and because the men got angry and told me "you can talk to the other girls"

talking to girls in istanbul feels like committing a crime man.

a friend (girl) told me that all you need to do in turkey is to protest out loud if theres a guy u dont like who hits on you (it happened to her aunt on a bus) and all the men will interfere and throw u off the bus.

 

[Feskaren]

Somebody ****INg replyyy! please... jeesus man.... c`mon alright already.

 

[everywomanshero]

Turks

I have never been to Turkey. I really cannot provide advice specific to that
location. I recommend having your company send you to Latin America
where sexuality runs wild (In my
experience). Preferably, I'd
like to recommend Argentina.

 

[Mr. Mystery II]

Sounds good, keep it up and you will look back on failures like this fondly!

One tip, you got angry with the first girl that dissed you. Don't ever let them get you angry, just laugh it off and joke with them about whatever they say as long as its not too offensive. In a case where a girl is very offensive (rare) just brush it off and walk away with you head high.

Keep on approaching, the more you do it the more fun and better at it you become!

Mr. Mystery

 

[PentatonicScales]

well..i am from Turkey...and Feskaren you seem to working in a wrong country..Turkish girls are totally different..you cant just approach them. even if they like you..they reject you..especially when you use ****y and funny approach..The big reason for this is ofcourse Turkish Guys..they all act Wussy..and turkish girls are used to it..so if you really wanna approach a Turkish girl..you should look like Bradd pitt or something...But you can do this it really works..try to find common friends..then make your friends introduce her to you...after that you can do your ****y and funny stuff..i always do like this..and it really works..

 

[SexinEar]

Your very lucky you didn't get your head chopped off. Next time try Iraq. JUST KIDDING

 

[PentatonicScales]

Your very lucky you didn't get your head chopped off. Next time try Iraq. JUST KIDDING

Not Funny

 

[Amigu]

You shouldn't have tryed to argue with the first girl. You could have just said "Heh yeah you got me I was just pretending to be a foreigner to create intrest" or something, she probably would have caught on to the fact that you really aren't turkish soon enough if the conversation had proceded. You don't want to create adversity or she'll close up.