I haven't applied to starting to work on the DJ bootcamp just yet because im home too much.But anyways so today was a pretty good,when my dad got home like couple hours ago.He brought his friend,and his friend has a daughter who is around my age she is 17.She is like sooo hot,im not even joking she has a perfect face(I can fall in love with her).So I was assuming she was out of my league.I thought she would think im a dork or loser,so my dad and his friend went outside to drink beer and talk.Which left me and that hot girl in my house alone.I was really really nervous then I decided to sak her a question"I like your shirt"She said thank you,after that I felt more comfortable.So me and her talked for awhile and everything seemed to be going well,she even laughed when I said im a sexy dork(amazing most girls would NEVER laugh at my jokes).So I was feeling confident so when I ask her do you want to go outside to the park she said ok.So when we got to the park(where my confidence went low) she started acting all different she started ignoring me,and when guys check her out she would go talk to them and tell them she doesn't know me.So now my confidence was sooo low,I askded her why are you telling them that?She responded by telling me that I make her look bad,by the way I walk,talk and act.So she was saying pretty much no girl wants to be seen with me,im an embarrsement.So now I was hurt and I was kinda of mad,she didn't even walk home with me she walked the other way around because she doesn't want to be seen with me.She left like one hour ago.This is my problem when its just me and a girl alone we talk normal,but in public they all ignore me,insult me or act like I don't exist.This is my same problem at school as well,they all do this so pretty much is how do I change my appearence and my looks how do I become a good looking handsome young man??Help me out guys I need help again.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Field Report&I need to change my appearence so I can be good looking!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Well my hair is like long,and I have couple pimples little ones and have couple freckles.I do wear glasses,but I really dont have a hair style.And my posture well i don't know how to describe that besides I walk with my head down and eyes looking to the ground(but Im going to change that by walking head high and eyes high.)Well I believe my voice is ok,even though people think im dorky but I believe I sound ok.But this is a problem I been having for awhile girls don't want to be seen with me in public.Luke!! said:
Well you should be happy that you had fun and thats what counts. I can't tell you much about looking good but I do have couple of suggestion. First you need to take baby steps: Observe what people wear in your school meaning what's the latest "trend" then go to mall and shop. After this join a gym or buy some weights and start working out at home. This one is important so listen closely: start to look at yourself and life postively, and search for Pook threads. :yes:
P.S. I just saw your post and you should get a haircut.
P.S. I just saw your post and you should get a haircut.
And I got another question do looks matter with women?Because when its jsut me and the girl everything is fine we talk perfectly but when in public its when they ignore,insult,or act like I don't exist.So does looks matter and do women want to be seen with good looking men?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Moving you legs in a certain way doesn't make much difference and I hope you start making these changes very soon. Hope you do good and don't forget to tell us. Feel good about yourself and don't get obessed with that girl because there is more fish in the river.
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Wow, I almost stabbed my eyes out when I saw a post from you, let alone it being a Field Report.
You've just surpassed Viper for development by about 10 points. Continue to improve there, find what suits you (socially, mentally and visually), and my respect for you will grow, along with other people.
You've just surpassed Viper for development by about 10 points. Continue to improve there, find what suits you (socially, mentally and visually), and my respect for you will grow, along with other people.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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whats your voice like dreamx?
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his voice is dreammmyy
dreamx i think u should focus on one thing at a time or we'll keep seeing threads like this. style your hair and see what happens, THEN buy some new clothes and see what happens. one thing at a time, and it wont be hard to improve.
dreamx i think u should focus on one thing at a time or we'll keep seeing threads like this. style your hair and see what happens, THEN buy some new clothes and see what happens. one thing at a time, and it wont be hard to improve.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I dont neglect the bible its I lack the confidence because im soo used to people saying im worthless that I believe it,not anymore its changing.And crossboss but don't post anything else on this forum or my thread because my respect for you is gone after reading the question you asked which is soo dumb I think of you as an idiotcrossboss said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=99639
Everyone click on that its crossboss thread asking a question as you read that you gonna think he is an idiot,its the dumbest question ever!Come on even a guy like me would know she likes me,man crossboss I lost all respect for you sorry im not trying to insult you its just my opinion.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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