"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Field Report: Hometown Club

Dan08

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Ok so I was out tonight with a couple mates as I'm fresh back from uni and I don't see them much and we hit the clubs dressed to the nines and suave as ****.

None of us were drinking so we had our wits about us and we're just having a laugh, dancing stupid and chatting **** to each other.

Now, out of my mates I'm the only one single which suits me fine and we spot 2 girls dancing alone together looking fine and my mates take the blonde and I'll wing you on the friend.

Normally I'd go for it but I thought something was up, so I said leave it a bit and see what develops. So we do our thing and the girls come over and start dancing near to us and I'm like to my mate leave it out and watch.
Within 5 minutes I **** you not the blonde has had over 15 guys hit on her and turned down everything single one then laughs about it with her mate and moves on and I'm like **** that **** mate she's an attention wh0re.

So the night develops and we spy a blonde and a brunette and the brunette is a HB8 with the blonde a HB7 and once again we're dancing and I'm like to my mate let's have this so we're dancing with them and I think I'm getting there with the brunette till she swaps over with her blondie and I'm thinking WTF is happening here?

That's when blondie starts to grind up my back and I think BINGO. She then goes on to say she fancies me and I'm like result!
This is where I think I screwed up, so I'm there asking her name etc making convo, dancing with her and trying to escalate but no major luck and I'm thinking girl you just told me you dig me what's the hold up??

In hindsight I shoulda got her to a quieter place and went for the kiss close after convo etc etc

As it was the blondie didn't develop, not even a number which in my defense I couldn't take her back to my folks, could have the number but seeing as I'm back at uni next week for a couple months I wouldn't see the point.

So it's a kinda nothing report, was fun. Critique away or just plain ignore.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Konada

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Seems like the blonde was just attention wh0ring. No fault on your part, a girl who is interested won't turn down your advances unless you're too eager/aggressive off the bat.
 

DragonBlood

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Personally I think you could have pulled this one. She out right told you she was interested and you could have moved her to a quieter area and made out for awhile.

Regarding your folks places this isnt a big deal, you should have been honest about it. "Hey Im home for Christmas why dont we stay at your place instead".

You had nothing to lose here so it might have worked. If she put resistance with this you could have put something like your not in town forever etc. You seem to have forgot who was the real prize here.

Overall though not a bad night at all keep it up!
 
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