Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Field REPORT !! GOOD NITE !

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I went to a party.... chatted up with a few chicks..

This one chick caught my eye. I acted like a man... told her to get up and sit on my lap etc. I drank a few beers and flirted with a whole bunch of girls. This girl came and asked me to play a drinking game so I did.

I end up bringing her back to my place. We start hooking up w/e

I get really into it but... I DONT GET HARD !

Im like wtf.. So I tell her IM like yo get me hard. SHe starts jerking off my limp **** and the **** dont get hard still. So eventually I just stop her and proceed to finger her and eventually just lay down like im tired... She stays for a few min and I just tell her I will walk her out.

I dont know what it was... Maybe a combo of nervous/ alcohol?

Its so annoying cuz I finally got a chick over and I cant seal the deal !
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I hope this chick thinks that she just doesent turn me on .

If she goes and tells her friends this ****.... IM FUked.

My **** wuz limp and small as hell looking cuz I was freezing in my apartment.

Any ideas about how to play it off? Im thinking just be like fuk it and not even give it thought. This girl isnt g/f material anyway so i dont really care. I just hope she dont ruin my rep.
 
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Not sure how old you are, but generally girls who've been around the drinking scene for a few years know all about the infamous whiskey ****. I talked to a girl about it once and her response was that it sucks for the guy, and it sucks for the girl as well. She left it at that, and it didn't seem like a dealbreaker to her. Hopefully the girls in your area are as understanding.
 

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thanks for cheerin me up dude.

I guess next time I will only have a few drinks at the begining to be sociable...

whisky dik is a ***** !
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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