"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Field report from first real street approach.

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Field report with 23-year old hottie from Bulgaria.

This is one of my first street-approaches. Things went great, but then I pushed it too far and got turned down.

I went on vacation to Bulgaria one and a half week ago. I was walking the first day on the street with my friends when some girl who worked at a restaurant started to hand out flyers and speaking with my friends.

I was walking maybe 20 meters behind them, so she didn’t see me coming. I strike up behind her back and lay my arm over her shoulder.


Me: Hi baby, what’s up?
Her: Oh, nothin nothin… just working .. What’s up with you?
Me: Oh, nothing much baby, hehe…. Just out with my friends, you see the people walking over there?
Her: Yeah, cool, baby!

I start walking away, she stops me.

Her: Hey, where are you going?
Me: To catch up with my friends.
Her: Nah wait! I love your hair. It’s cool! And those blue eyes too!
Me: I love you too baby, I love you too!
Me: See ya around.

The funny thing with these girls who works on the streets with handing out flyers to tourists is that they’re both flirty and very social. So, that’s probably why it went so easy. Anyways… more to come.

Day two:

Laying my hand around her same way as the day before.

Me: Hi baby!
Her: Oh it’s you again, with that cool hair!
Me: Oh yeah, you remember me?
Her: Yeah of course I do What are you doing now?
Me: Like.. uuhmm… nothing! Just went to the beach. It’s real nice there!
Her: Aw yeah. Are you having a good time over here?
Me: It’s wonderful!
Me: Hey look, I gotta get going.
Her: Wait wait! What’s your name baby?
Me: Me, my name’s yyyyy (I prefer keeping my name private)
Her: Nice nice! I like that!

Me: Thanks… What’s yours baby?
Her: Xxx(I can’t remember her name)
Me: Oh, nice to meet you xxx! I gotta get going now, for real! Else I’ll lose my friends…
Her: No wait baby! Let me look at your necklace. It’s real nice! I love that!

She starts touching me on the neck and on my necklace.

Me: I love your necklace too.

I start touching it in the same way.

Her: haha, why are you complimenting me on the same thing I compliment you on?
Me: Because I want to. Hey, I love your hair and your eyes! (playful to tease her on the compliment-thing…)

I start touching her hair too.

Her: Oh, you just keep saying what I saying, and doing the same things as I’m doing.
Me: Yeah, is that a problem?
Her: No, no! So, if I do like THIS, what would you do THEN?

She moves her hand over my breast and then down on my legs looking horny into my eyes.

Me: Haha, you really wanna know? Of course I’ll do like this:

I touch her over her breasts and then down on the side of her stomach.

Her: Haha, baby, I like that!
Me: Yeah, me too. But now… I gotta get going!!!
Her: No wait! Where are you from?
Me: With my blonde hair and my blue eyes? I’m Swedish of course!

I start to walk away.

She stops me.

Her: Hey, how old are you?
Me: Oh, I’m 19. and you?
Her: I’m 23 baby.
Me: Haha 23… nice! Well… that’s … too young for me!
Her: hahaha, you’re funny! Too young for you? Really?
Me: Haha, oh yeah! But look, it’s not about the age, it’s about experience. Right?
Her: oh yeah! Do you got some?
Me: Oh damn. Yeah, hell yeah, I got some. Do you?
Her: Yeah, I do man!
Me: Okay, we’ll see about THAT later!

I walked away.

Day three.

Me: Oh hello, it’s my experienced girl.
Her: Yeah, and my experienced guy! Did you get some experience lately?
Me: Haha yeah. Did you?
Her: Yeah, with some guy from Germany, at the beach. We had a real good time!
Me: Oh, cool. Will you meet him again?
Her: Yeah, but he’s going home tomorrow night, so… maybe I’ll get time for you then… hehe.
Me: Haha, maybe. And maybe I’ll get some time for you!

I walk away.

Day four:

The next day I have a quick conversation with her asking what she was up to later that night, since the german guy went home. She said she were going to some club, but I didn’t feel like going there so I never met her that night.

Some days went, and the last day of my vacation I decided that I’d try to hook up with her.

Last day:

Me: Hi baby, how are you doing?
Her: Oh im doing great. What are you doing?
Me: Nothing, it’s my last day here.

I was drunk, and I can’t really remember exactly what we talked about until she said:

Her: Damn you’re really too full of yourself…
Me: Haha, am I? Yeah, maybe I am. But I like it that way.
Her: I don’t like it.
Me: Who cares? Haha. I won’t change my personality.
Her: Okay. But I’ll tell you something man. You believe that you’re god or something.
Me: In some ways I am…
Her: Yeah, yeah. Whatever. Look, you really got bad game now!
Me: Haha, okay. Bye bye baby. See ya next year!

And I left. Turned down.

I’m pretty proud of myself tho, since the conversation went so damn smooth – and after all, who cares about rejection? :D

Just wanted to share.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FOL!!!

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haha that's no rejection...that is some killer playing LOL. :woo:
 

FOL!!!

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What's teh conclusion? Being drunk and a DJ is a bad combination? :p
 

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good playing indeed!

When she started touching you...that was indication to close.
 

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Originally posted by Othello
I guess it's the differences in language but your conversation was very up front, but it looks like she liked it.

You definitely should have closed earlier she was into you from the beginning.

Thats why she got mad! She felt as he was rejecting her by not taking it forward by then...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thanks for responding people! :D

" I guess it's the differences in language but your conversation was very up front, but it looks like she liked it.

You definitely should have closed earlier she was into you from the beginning."

What do ya mean by differences in language? Anyways... oh yeah, she liked it! I Don't know what it is, but the last weeks i've been more up front than ever before, and it seems like a lot of girls over here like it. And, they also liked it in Bulgaria!

Yeah, I should. But, I just couldn't. I went on vacation to relax, not gettting laid, if you know what I mean(Oh well, I admit... I can't take a getting-away-from-getting-laid-vacation, but ... hah...)

"What's teh conclusion? Being drunk and a DJ is a bad combination? :p"

Sometimes yes. sometimes no. :D
 

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I found this topic accidentaly searching for posters from Bg, but here's a short comment:

1. You waited too long. Should have gotten the number the first/second time. "Stumbling" so many times "accidentally" is stupid.

2. You're insecure on your age and she caught on that. The "I'm 23" was too fast and the "right?" after the "experience" comment was awlful.

Once I teased a girl not telling my age for half an hour. She even started speculating "If you're under 30 it's ok, but if you're older it will be a problem...". LOL. After I stopped laughing I told her I was 21.
 
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