Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Field Report forum

Should there be a forum only for field reports?

  • Yes!

    Votes: 3 50.0%
  • No

    Votes: 2 33.3%
  • Indifferent

    Votes: 1 16.7%

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HMbroken

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I really enjoy reading the field reports. Does anyone else think there should be a forum only for field reports?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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We had one around earlier (aka, Success Stories) but it got mothballed because it wasn't "popular" enough or something like that.
 

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I don't mean a forum of only success stories though. I'm talking about a forum where DJs and people becoming DJs can post their experiences, regardless of the results.

Personally, I like reading the field reports where you can see the DJ evolving. It's great inspiration and gets me motivated.

In my opinion, these types of posts don't specifically fall into any of the current forum categories, so I'm sure they're probably all over the place.
 
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