"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Field Report for the Night

Paintballguy

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So I just got back from the movies, I went to see "The Village" with one of my buds. It was a pretty good movie btw.

Anyways, as I was walking to the theatre my bud spots 2 HB's walking behind us. I slow down and they happen to be going to the same movie and end up sitting a row down from us. I will start by naming them HB A and HB B. I was EC'ing HB A the whole time until the movie started and it got dark.

When the movie ends, I get beside them and start a convo. (yes i know a group isnt good for PU's but I just wanted to talk) I say "So what did you guys think of the movie?". They reply with random stuff and whatever. So I ask them their names and ask if they just came by themselves. The one replies with "Yea we decided to leave our bf's at home". So I quickly replied with "Yea I decided to leave my girlfriends at home, I got too many." You should of seen her face, she looked like she was gonna cry or something. Then I walked away....

On my way to my car, I see a nice HB 8 sitting there with her UG friend. So I got some EC and decided to go in. I started talking and found out they wanted to see the same movie but it got sold out. I asked what her name was, yadda yadda yadda.... Got some pretty good rapport going but didnt close. I probably could of got a # close but I wasnt really concerned.

Overall, I felt pretty good and I feel I can approach any girl with no problems now.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bone Thug Mug

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Nice comeback to the boyfriend "rejection" or whatever the **** you wanna call it, haha, sounds like she was pretty surprised at the size of your balls huh. It's pretty awesome having the guts to say what you want when you want, without any fear whatsoever. It's money when you can approach every HB you set your eyes on.
 

KiInCollege

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Your ability to cold approach deserves merit. But, you should've closed the hot girl after the movie. Why not why not, right? :)
 

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yea your right I should of but I was glad just to be able to cold approach any HB I wanted. So I was satisfied with the night.
 

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yes keep it up paintball guy..
one step at a time.. and always learn your lessons
:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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jakethasnake

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Nice effort my man. But you do realize that the 'boyfriend' line isn't necessarily the 'torpedo' that will sink all your chances, right? Sometimes (though not always), she doesn't have a boyfriend, but is uncomfortable being approached by a random man in a non-pickup environment, and thus shot you down. You could've tried to circumvent this with some witty and funny remarks, and walked away with her number. This btw is a result of social conditioning - phobia introduced by horror stories of rapes (media), and also the anti-slut defense, which is pretty much standard on all women these days.
 
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