"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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field report - first "real" encounter w/ new chick

Dogfish

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alrighty!
after boosting my confidence for a couple of weeks, today i finally played it out.

i stayed after school for a project, and i was hanging out in the tv room with a friend... he is pretty nerdy and shy and insecure, so i told him about sosuave...
w/e

there was a chick, my age, who just came back from track-practise, and she was just wearing her tight panties and a neat little top, so she was pretty much half-naked. (and hot! hb8 at least!)

however, i do some fluff/ c&f-talk with her, ask her name, i am confident, help her finishing her video-project ("nothing i can't handle!"), kept on smiling and so on. she responded pretty well, smiled at me, laughed at my jokes.
then another girl from my class came in, also in pretty short track wear, but she didnt stay long.
my friend blushed and stuff at the sight of thegirls, so i made fun of him ("he get's all nervous when two halfnaked girls are around")...:crackup:

they laughed, i smiled, he hated my guts :D

i kept talking to that chick, then she told me she had to take an "icebath" for her legs, came back later...
her: "aww my legs are really cold" *towards me:* "Wanna feel?"
me: *kino*

she also asked my friend where im from and stuff (exchange from germany), me when im going back and so on.

then i went out to get food and when i came back she had gotten picked up by her mom :(

i hope i see her in school. a guy from her group told me she had no b/f :D :D

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fazit:
-i am a king
-i blame you for it.

:crackup:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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awesome.. you definately switched a few attraction switches in her.. Now what you need to do is simply when you see her next time, run an ESP routine on her or something else to keep you from being just an ordinary guy and also do this in a manner to where you are not gonna be around her for long and then get her digits or email and you're well on your way. One thing you could have done was bring in the nerdy kid and tell the girls how much of a great, funny guy he is blah blah blah...the kid would definately appreciate it and you would have been seen as totally alpha!...nevertheless great job man, and if you f*ck up, FORGET IT and keep at it!
 

Zerotwoonenine

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good luck man, she was really in to you, she gave you at least 2 IOI so you should go for it.
 
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