"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Field report: Fingered a girl in the club

Chamber36

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Ya, so I ran into a milfish type last friday in the club. Then started chattin with 2 younger babes. Apparently the 3 of them were friends. The milf then got us all drinks.

The hotter of the 2 babes was drunk as fvck, spilling beer everywhere because people kept knocking into her, and she was like 50 kilo's. So I move her towards a better position, and she brushes her body against mine. Well from there on I kept kinoing her more. Her ass against my crotch, etc. Turning her around, tits against my chest, all sorts of kino. Tried to kiss her, she rejected, but continued the kino. Eventually she said she had a boyfriend. I didn't care of course. Well, eventually she was kissing my neck, and I realised the best thing to do would just keep escalating slowly, lol.

Eventually she had her hand in my pants, I thought about grabbing her elbow and jamming it down in there, but I decided not to be too jumpy and to let her grab my d!ck at her own pace, but she didn't do it, lol. She took her hand back out. Was sorta disappointed, but I decided to put my hand in her pants and also tease her a but, but once she started liking it, I just pushed my hand down and put 2 fingers in her pvssy.

All the meanwhile we were surrounded by people. I don't think anyone saw, but I like the way she grabbed my hand after I took it out and it was all sogging wet. Was thinking of putting it in her mouth, lol.

Anyway, she kept asking me why I'm so great and told me she would like to "have" me. Well I told her "let's go in the back of the club", but she didn't want to.

I did realise, soon as I asked her, I shoulda just grabbed her hand and taken her there. Then maybe gone in the bathroom with her and fvcked her there. Still not a big deal.

I also noticed that I felt a lot more natural about doing kino on other girls. There was another girl at the bar and I almost immediately had my hand on her lower back/ass while I was talking to her.

I think that my looks were simply better as well because I had gotten sunlight and been out and about all day. Not only was I out and about though, I had been out fvcking prostitutes. 2 in fact. 1 was a complete ***** and really know how to take it deep into her ovaries, lol. The other was a HB9+ from Letland, who basically was utterly beautiful. A white version of Adriana Lima. Only she coulda done some squats.

It was a good lesson on how to escalate anyway.

What I learned:
Lesson 1: "Wake up early in the day, and have a complete day, so that at the end you're in the same state of mind as everyone else. Tired and drunk. This might seem obvious, but I personally have been sleeping at the most random hours lately. Usually from 9 AM to 6 PM. Been turning it forward though, so now I sleep almost properly.

Sleeping properly will also allow a person to get their sunlight, their vitamin D, their daily socializing and what-not. It's a matter of living in tune with nature.

Lesson 2: Escalate slowly and don't always go for the kiss too fast. Kinda be sweet with the girls, hold hands and don't be afraid to touch them up a bit.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Can u put a picture of a white adriana lima....or something similar....shes my fav. Would love to see all versions lol

Seriously
 

Chamber36

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_sideways_ said:
Can u put a picture of a white adriana lima....or something similar....shes my fav. Would love to see all versions lol

Seriously
No, just take Adriana Lima, and imagine if she were from scandinavia. A few shades lighter.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lmao you sound exactly like me when i was a couple of years younger

Unfortunately i think what you got with this chick was by luck more than judgement,

Fingering paralytic chicks in clubs in full view is not an art
(Although kudos for the persistence)

Keep working on it
 

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I fingrred a girl whilest her dude was grinding on her from behind. I just put my hand back wbile i was in front of her...while this other girl was booty grinding on me.

Packed club...young chicks will do anything. L
 

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Very, very disgusting. I'm surprised such a sIut like her doesn't have AIDS.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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