Field Report...# CLOSED a HB9

[Tantric]

I've added my original post from a couple of days ago to this thread...here goes:

About 3 weeks ago, I was macking this HB9 in my class. NO ONE was talking to her! I figure, okay it's probably because she's a model and gives off a conceded vibe. Quite contrary, she's pretty cool.

I approached her and got off the c/f majorly with her! She asked me how i study for the exams and what works best...

ME- "uh...it depends. Usually in front on the TV or listening to music.

HER- "really, generally I do it on my bed. It generally works good for me that way."

ME- "i see...so what you're saying is that you are good in bed...

That got a huge response and she cracked up laughing...I kept up the c/f and kino. From then on she was completely into me, but for some stupid reason i didn't close...i think because she's an International model and HB9 my head messed with me.

Anyway, we were at a party a couple of weeks ago and she showed up with her BF. As I was on my way out the door with a couple of girls, and had a few drinks in me, I saw her in the kitchen...I continued with the c/f.

ME- "so...did you miss me?"

HER- (she smiles) "in your dreams! Just because you're sexy doesn't mean i miss you"

ME- (in a "you're being a bad girl" way) I say, "uh, uh, uh...YOU have a BF!"

HER "...i don't see a ring on my finger".

I was being dragged out the door so the convo didn't go much further.

A few days later, I approach her in school.

HER- "so...how you been? Is there anything on your mind?"

I didn't know what she was getting at.

HER- "you know, i'm kinda mad at you."

ME- "mad? okaaaaay?"

HER- "y'know, we've had this whole flirty and fun thing going on, and we've been talking.."

ME- "yeah..."

HER- "and I was really mad when you said, "uh, uh, uh, you have a BF"

ME- "oh...okay...why?"

HER- "well i took it as you being mad at me or something."

ME- "really? oh, no girl...i was just playing around."

I changed the subject from there and got the convo back into the c/f routine. I had her laughing for almost 20 min. straight. We almost killed ourselves.

Anyway, back at class, a GF of hers was passing a note to her, and i saw the first line in the message. It said, "did you sleep with him?". I didn't know who they were talking about but i turned to her anyway...

ME- "so? Did you?"

HER- "did i what?"

ME- "sleep with him..."

HER- (she hits me in the arm) "you saw my note!"

ME- "well?"

HER - "...uhhh....noooo....i didn't....agggggghhh! I havne't had sex in soooooo long"

ME- "oh yeah, why?"

HER- "well, you know that guy i was with at the party"

ME- "Yeah..."

HER- "I've been seeing him for a couple of weeks...everything was INTENSE...i don't like kissing on the first date, and i didn't, but it got really cool after. And I knew i totally wanted to sleep with him so i invited him over, got the candles...the romantic music...the setting...i got dressed in this really sexy dress...things were going well...and then...then...he reveals to me that he was "confused" about his sexuality..."

ME- "...you gotta be kidding me..."

HER- "nope...this is so strange...it's never happened to me before. I was practically raping him and he wouldn't."

Of course I'm looking at this girl and thinking WTF!! There is NO WAY this guy is even REMOTELY straight. She is FINE! Not wanting to bang this chick is ****ed up!

She was a bit down, so i said.

ME- "hmmm...so you turned him gay..."

I got a laugh, a smile from her and a slap on the shoulder.

ME- "...did you break up with him?"

HER- "noo...what's even more ****ed up, is he moved in his toothbrush into my place."

ME- "...uh huh..."

Anyway, I changed the subject again and got back onto the c/f and had her laughing throughout the rest of the class. She offered to give me a ride home. We chatted it up more on the way, but didn't close.

PART 2 - HE HE

I was in class with her today. I didn't pay any real attention to her until the break when I started the whole c/f routine while she was with her friend. SHE CAME BACK WITH HER OWN C/F ****!!!!

At the 7/11...

ME - So HB, can i score a ride home from you again today?

HB9 - yeah...i guess...only if you do what you did last time... (she gives me a look)

ME - (didn't know what she was getting at) "yeah... totally...you mean that thing i did with my tongue?"

Her friend looks at us in shock...

HB9 - "oh yeah baby" (she licks her lips in a sexual/flirty way and smiles)

ME - "...you trying to seduce me?"

HB9 - "well, you know...when you haven't had it in a while..."

ME - "well...i don't blame you...i mean, it is ME after all.

We head back to class...i don't give her anymore attention...

END OF CLASS

I get into her car and we start heading to my place...I'm thinking, "okay....i could TOTALLY **** this chick"...

HB9 - "so...i broke up with my BF today..."

ME - "Oh yeah...dumped him for me did ya?"

HB9 - oh, you know it...that would make me what... number 4?

ME - "number 4, what do you mean?"

HB9 - "well...you seemed interested in those other girls..."

ME - "oh...so you think i'm a big slut!"

HB9 - "no, no...just...you know...i was holding back till you got those other girls out of your system...cuz i'm the REAL goods!!! (she wasn't being conceded, just having fun)

ME - "oh yeah...by the way...you just passed my street...

HB9 - well, you know...i was going to take you back to my place" (too bad she was only joking)

ME - "uh huh...you ARE trying to seduce me...god, is all you think about is SEX!! Geez all that sexual tension between us must be driving you crazy!"

HB9 - "yeah...plus i haven;t had it in a while."

ME - well, it doesn't help when you date GAY men! (She smiles)

HB9 - "yes, well Frederick -"

ME - "woah...hold on...Frederick!! The guy's name was FREDERICK...okay...obviously he was GAY!!! You couldn't clue in with a name like THAT?!!! YIKES!!!!"

I get a laugh from her. I change the subject so we're not talking about him.

Anywaay, we pull up to my place, and it was around 11:45 pm...i was going to ask her up, but she started getting into this deal about this stalker guy who keeps calling her saying he's going to "**** her sooo hard and get her pregnant"...all kinds of BS like that. So the mood was falling slowly...especially since HE CALLED RIGHT AFTER SHE TELLS ME THIS!!!!! She didn't answer it, but checked the message...it was TOTALLY ****ED UP!!!

I think i was being AFC at this point,

ME - "you know what, give me his number..."

Things got a bit off track cuz i started talking about how i'll call him up tomorrow, makes sure he gets the message to leave her alone...blah blah blah...in a way i think i was trying to show some sort of "strength" or something...just because i know chicks like guy who can protect them, but it started getting AFC, so i changed the subject again. Besides, my plans of getting her up to my place, or at least getting HER number was fading.

I go for the # close and voila!

HER - "totally...give me call...we'll hang out..."

I would have invited her up, but the mood wasn't there. * close came to mind, the position of the seats in her car would have made it awkward...DAMN MUSTANGS!!!

Went for the * on the hand, but it ended up just holding her hand, and she gently rubbed mine with her thumb as i exited.

I was happy getting her #, but it seemed odd...too easy...

This chick has worked with Naomi Campbell and Claudia Schiffer, so she's pretty up there...she's half white/half black, which is cool...i mean, she's worked in PARIS, LONDON, NY, LA, you name it...and her agent is the biggest one in North America. Usually i'd be all into a chick like this...but i'm not what gives?

Something doesn't feel right...part of me doesn't really care...like she's cool and all, but something was too easy about. She's hot, but I still have this other HB8 in my head who i find "sexually" more appealing...does that make sense?

I would totally **** her, but it almost doesn't seem exciting...maybe becasue it weas too easy? What's my problem?

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

she is a ***** and she is Trouble (with a capital T) - those threatening calls she got were from her ex-pimps not a stalker! *****s always call their x's stalkers when they dont want their attention anymore. Know about her past more - may be psycho ho - y is she making a point of telling u she hasnt had it for a while - if she is so fine she had it from 100 guys already - she obviously has no inhibitions based on your convo - dont go to her place - dont want to see your throat cut from her jealous x's or someone she turned down or disrespected seeking revenge. Oh yeah slut models usually have a high incidence of AIDS and other diseases - wear 2 condoms and rubber gloves.

you like the other girl better b/c she has more long term potential and is more mysterious than this blatant super-ho.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

the hesitancy you feel "something doesnt feel right" is your sixth sense telling u to avoid this chick for reasons that u may not know yet.

Or maybe you feel that u would not perform up to her standards sexually as her other pimps did - inadequacy or sexual performance anxiety over doing a super-model AKA super-ho!

 

[Porky]

PuertoRicanLover, what you say is valid but not necessarily true.

I had a girlfriend last summer, and I was never as interested in her as I should be. She was shorter than me, purple-brown hair, nice rack, pretty much an all around hottie. I'd give her an 8.5, and I rarely give those out.

There was just something about her that didn't attract me. Maybe it was the fact that she was so nice it was annoying, or maybe I just found it too easy to get with her. Regardless, I regret going out with her and leading her on.

Tantric, if you can put your feelings on hold in order to get some play from this girl, then by all means go ahead. If you think your conscience will get in the way of you having fun with her though...end it now.

Wearing two condoms during sex is bad, by the way. The friction they create can cause them to tear.

 

[JustDoItAlways]

Do "stalkers" call a girl at 11:45 pm? Maybe, but boyfriends and fvck-buddies wondering where their lay is also do this.

Why did she bring this "stalker" sh1t up anyway just at the time when you were ready to ask her up? To put you off of course.

Just an aside, but I hate chicks who have "stalkers". Most of the time, it is just made-up bull-sh1t looking for some kind of sick attention or bragging as in "I'm so desirable, I even have a stalker."

The next statement is "No, you can't have his number. I'll deal with it myself." Translation - "I'm obviously not giving you his number because then the jig would be up when you find out I am just making all this sh1t up or find out that I'm totally leading this guy on behind the scenes."

Anyway, just some red flags. Continue to proceed.

But its starting to sound like she makes up lots of little stories doesn't it? How do you know she is actually a Paris run-way model?

 

[Tantric]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover

Or maybe you feel that u would not perform up to her standards sexually as her other pimps did - inadequacy or sexual performance anxiety over doing a super-model AKA super-ho!

Nah...that DEFINITLY isn't it!!!!

 

[daredevil]

Guys you are obviously reading to much into it!!!!

From what you described she is into you (big time). period.

I dated some models but they were mostly att.wh0res.

You did some classic C+F and she played along! You did great!

Remember to ( as DocLove and DeAngelo preach )
DO THE THINGS YOU DID WHEN YOU FIRST MET HER THAT ATTRACTED HER IN THE FIRST PLACE.

 

[Tantric]

Originally posted by JustDoItAlways
Do "stalkers" call a girl at 11:45 pm? Maybe, but boyfriends and fvck-buddies wondering where their lay is also do this.

Why did she bring this "stalker" sh1t up anyway just at the time when you were ready to ask her up? To put you off of course.

Just an aside, but I hate chicks who have "stalkers". Most of the time, it is just made-up bull-sh1t looking for some kind of sick attention or bragging as in "I'm so desirable, I even have a stalker."

But its starting to sound like she makes up lots of little stories doesn't it? How do you know she is actually a Paris run-way model?

No...sorry bud...when we were at the party a couple of weeks ago, she gave her number to a guy there, because he was a close friend of the host. I know the host as well. He is a movie producer and was interested in auditioning her for a part. She said she's usually quite hesitant about giving her # out, but as he was a freind of a friend, and everything seemed legit she did it.

She started getting a bad vibe from him after a couple of days of him calling her, and she said she was no longer interested. Then he got pi$$ed off and told her, "the only reason i'm calling you is because i want to FVCK you!!!!". The he got into that whole other BS.

This chick had only had about 4 BF's (so she says), and was engaged to be married up until July. She was dating that guy for 3 years. So i don't think she's "been around" as some people are thinking. And she is definitely not a slut. I've been with all kinds and that's one vibe i've never got from her.

I'm pretty sure she hasn't made anything up. I listened to the messages that stalker left, and she is friends with the HOST of the party, she's going to talk to him about it. It's his friend afterall.

I've seen her modelling shots, and i used to be represented by the agent she is with, so i know that's legit as well.

I;m not sure where in the original post i made it sound like she was a slut...pretty sure that's not the case.

 

[Reto]

Tantric,

Go for it. Period. Don't listen to all this negative sh!t.

You definitely have some serious chemistry with her. That's rare. And even more rare that she's HOT.

A woman's past sexual history is her business. As your history is your business. Don't worry about. But, take pre-caution. You don't want to get anything, and you don't want to give anything either. (You may have something you don't know about).

 

[SamePendo]

Originally posted by Pook
That is Don Juan

 

[Kodiac]

HB9 with a mustang ? sweet

Sounds like you played it well, go for it!

 

[Befuddled]

Tantric. i'm gonne go out on a limb here and go against most of the replies here. Sounds to me like the 2 of you hit it off preety well... from what you told me, it seems as though you did a good job with the jokes n shiznit.

If what you say is true, that she is a model, etc,etc... i think it would be possible to have a 'stalker'. I went out with this chick a couple of years ago, and another guy in the dorm was preety jealous, hes call n harass her like on a daily basis. it was freaking this girl out, and cops were involved. I lost interest enentually, she seemed very superficial to me.

Anyway, the 'stalker' is probably some 'AFC' she blew off or something to that effect. It does seem that she does like you, but i think you are borderline friendzone here. The fact that she brought up your other gf's and volunttering the fact that she dumped her bf, seems preety inviting to me. She is sending you positive signals, if you dont respond...it's friendzone for you, im afraid.

BUT thtas not your problem. you cant seem to figure out why youre not 'attracted' to this girl..... could be a bunch of reasons:
1. being a model....probably a bloated head/ego.
2. you might actually feel intimidated. (what she doing with other guys when youre not around ?)
3. She might be all that as far as looks, but character/personality might not be what you want.
4.high maintenance ? probably an issue.
5. here's just a little observation that i noticed in most guys including myself... when you go out with a 8-10, guys tend to be very posessive, and suspicious. i noticed that happening to me, and didnt really like it, so i bailed on the relationship. (wasnt 'comfortable')

hope that helps dude. I'd say if you think shes cool.... give her a shot, you never know...she might be a great person once you get to know her better.

Cheers.

 

[Tantric]

Thanks man...

She's actually really cool (known now as HBOreo)...we hit it off awesome and she's got a great personality.

I realized what it is that is kinda giving me the "red flag"...

1) She ended a relationship with her FIANCE in July...part of me thinks she's looking for a "committed" relationship...i just want to have fun...then again that is only speculation.

2) she says she's quite independant, but part of me feels she's a bit needy

3) she comes on a bit stronger than what i;m used to...it isn't intimidating me, but it is a wierd feeling.

I scored another ride home with her today, and the way the convo was going, i fel i was getting LJBF...just didn't have the same "sexual" vibe.

Anyway, she asked me for my number as i didn't give her mine originally.

HBOreo - you know, you should give me your number cuz you didn't give it to me yesterday...(she pulls out a pen)

ME - yeah, for sure (she writes it down)

HBOreo - so...what do you do for fun on the weekends?

ME - uh, depends...the only weekend i had off was last week as i'm usually quite busy haveing fun...parties and stuff...

HBOreo - oh yeah....i;m usually pretty bored....

ME - really....i kinda pegged you as a party girl?

(actually i;m not surprised that she is usually bored as i;ve read that A LOT of models are quite lonely...due to the fact that they are either so busy with work, or that no guyb asks them out becasue of their height, good looks, etc.)

She did pretty much everything short of asking me out. i told her that i;d see what was up and get back to her. Part of me was thinking i should have told her i was busy...keep it a challenge, but it didn't end up that way...oh well...i;ve played her pretty good, so i guess i;m allowed ONE mistake

 

[Avsguy01]

Go and get yourself laid from a HB9!! Thats what condoms are for!

 

[bp1974]

Stop second guessing yourself. You have no idea if she wants to marry you and have your kids, or just f*ck your brains out, and you won't know if you never do anything about this.

You said yourself she did everything short of ask you out herself. What are you waiting for? Forget the challenge crap, that's not relevant here. You need to f*ck this girl soon or she'll start looking elsewhere. Seems like you're looking for excuses to do nothing right now.

 

[Tantric]

I'm hooking up with her this weekend, so we'll see what's up...

 

[Befuddled]

I think you made a good decesion to hook up/get together with her over the weekend at a party or something, to just hang out. you cant let these things hanging for too long.

Have fun, and let us know how it went.

Cheers.

 

[Reto]

Gotta keep us updated...

 

[squirrels]

Man, if you want to bang her, then bang her. If not, then DON'T.

Don't feel pressured to sex a woman just because everyone on SoSuave says to...sex her because you WANT to sex her, because thinking about her turns you on. You don't want to bang a woman just to bang a woman. I'm slowly learning that there are some hotties out there who just AREN'T worth sexing.

When you close your eyes and think about her (don't get in the habit of doing this, it leads to one-itis LOL), do you feel turned on? Do you enjoy thinking about being with her physically? If so, then just go for it.

 

[Reto]

Squirrels is right.

I can't count how many times I've gone out with a girl because my friends thought she was hot ...

It's got to be what you want...