"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Field Report - Being drunk can mess up your chances.

SamTheHobit

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Was at a bar where bands and sh1t play.

Here's what happens.

HB7 - (Signals me over) Hey don't I know you?

Drunk Me - Uhm, I don't think so? maybe you know me from around here.

HB7 - blah blah blah (forgot this part)

Drunk Me - (I notice she's wearing an upside down cross) Why are you wearing an upside down cross? Are you a satanist?

HB7 - Why are you asking stupid questions?

Drunk Me - It's not a stupid question.

Her hot friend comes over I introduce myself, I try and salvage things and introduce myself to the upside cross girl, I receive blank stares.

I walked away a Little less drunk.

Probably dodged a bullet.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I would say I was pretty well composed unfortunately I sometimes say stupid things.

No, the cross was definitely upside down, she was wearing all black (goth type).
 
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I've never been into the goth or punk type. Knew a HB6.5 through grade school who dressed like a normal chick, went punk after HS graduation, would now rank her about 2-3. Would still bone though. No standards
 
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