"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Field Report - Being drunk can mess up your chances.

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Was at a bar where bands and sh1t play.

Here's what happens.

HB7 - (Signals me over) Hey don't I know you?

Drunk Me - Uhm, I don't think so? maybe you know me from around here.

HB7 - blah blah blah (forgot this part)

Drunk Me - (I notice she's wearing an upside down cross) Why are you wearing an upside down cross? Are you a satanist?

HB7 - Why are you asking stupid questions?

Drunk Me - It's not a stupid question.

Her hot friend comes over I introduce myself, I try and salvage things and introduce myself to the upside cross girl, I receive blank stares.

I walked away a Little less drunk.

Probably dodged a bullet.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I would say I was pretty well composed unfortunately I sometimes say stupid things.

No, the cross was definitely upside down, she was wearing all black (goth type).
 
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I've never been into the goth or punk type. Knew a HB6.5 through grade school who dressed like a normal chick, went punk after HS graduation, would now rank her about 2-3. Would still bone though. No standards
 
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