Life is funny sometimes. When you least expected to meet someone you actually do.
Today I was walking into the mall when it was pouring rain and my hair got all wet and messy. I was tired and hungry from my long day so I stood in the linup for 10-15 mins just to get a damn burger.
I get my meal and finally sit down and I scarfed it down. I did not care about anything at this point but finishing my meal and head home. All of the sudden I hear a voice "excuse me do you mind if I seat here"? (my mouth was stuffed with French fries so all I could do is nod I didn't even take a look at the girl
). She said "thank you" and sat down next to me with her food (Japanese food and apple juice).
I took a glance at her and she was actually a cute girl in her mid to late 20's. I then glance around and noticed that there were some tables around the food court that were empty!! I thought it was interesting but didn't pay much attention to her and continued eating. She then "accidently" dropped her chopstick and asked me " do you mind watching my food while I go get new chopsticks??!!" I told her "sure" and she went.
All of the sudden I go into Pimp-mode because I realise that this girl has subtly position herself to be around me and gave me an oppertunity for an opening (its true what they say that females who like you do not come directly towards you but rather subtly position themselves close to your personal space and your peripheral vision in order to subtly hint and give you the oppertuinty to pick them up. In essence their guard is down and they will not reject your advancement. They lure you in not just by their looks but also by their behaviour.)
So she comes back to the table with the new chopsticks:
Her: thanks for watching my food.
Me: Don't thank me yet.....
Her: why??
Me: I have a confession to make...... I took a sip out of your juice while you were gone
Her: Oh no! (in a joking kind of matter)
Me: Hey I am just kidding, I wanted to see you drop those chopsticks again and shock you. I take it you are a big sushi fan
her: blah blah
I then start to shift the conversation as to "what were you doing in the mall" and she said she is working and its her first day and she is a bit nervous. She then started asking me what I am doing here and proceed to tell me that she got the new job after she broke up with her boyfriend before christmas( in my head I am thinking DING DING DING she is giving me headsup she is single).
But then she started going on about the breakup and the circumstances of it and I am thinking "fvck better stir the conversation somewhere else or I will end up being an emotional tampon".
I tell her before she continues: "forget about him! Its a new year, you got a new job its time to move on "(I placed my hand in front of her on the table and she kino'ed me and rubbed it). She then asked me If I am from New York because I sound like I am from there (I laughed cause deep down I remember one of my friends mentioning to me that sometimes when I get around woman I sound and act like Robert Deniro with a Bronx accent. I don't know why maybe because I get nervous and I try to act like a cool cat but it works!:crackup
I then proceed to ask her for her name and she asks for mine and I reached over to shake her hand (more kino). I continue talking to her and she finished her meal and needed to get back to work so simply said in the most casual tone and demenour "whats your number?!" as if I already expected for her to give it to me (If you act as if you are expected to get her number and believe it , instead of asking for it and hoping, your chances are much better of getting the number). So I took her number and left.
I am thinking I am most likely could end up as rebound guy with this chick (because she has been with her boyfriend many years) so I am not thinking too much about it because it could be something or nothing, you never know (from my past I know that chicks after big breakup tend to have short flings with guys and act bad until they get over the big breakup and when they do they are ready to be a good girl sagain and pretend and believe they never fvcked and acted bad, sounds fvcked up but its true). However I will try to get more girl's numbers this week because I do not want to get oneitis. I will keep posted if anything else develops.
Today I was walking into the mall when it was pouring rain and my hair got all wet and messy. I was tired and hungry from my long day so I stood in the linup for 10-15 mins just to get a damn burger.
I get my meal and finally sit down and I scarfed it down. I did not care about anything at this point but finishing my meal and head home. All of the sudden I hear a voice "excuse me do you mind if I seat here"? (my mouth was stuffed with French fries so all I could do is nod I didn't even take a look at the girl
). She said "thank you" and sat down next to me with her food (Japanese food and apple juice). I took a glance at her and she was actually a cute girl in her mid to late 20's. I then glance around and noticed that there were some tables around the food court that were empty!! I thought it was interesting but didn't pay much attention to her and continued eating. She then "accidently" dropped her chopstick and asked me " do you mind watching my food while I go get new chopsticks??!!" I told her "sure" and she went.
All of the sudden I go into Pimp-mode because I realise that this girl has subtly position herself to be around me and gave me an oppertunity for an opening (its true what they say that females who like you do not come directly towards you but rather subtly position themselves close to your personal space and your peripheral vision in order to subtly hint and give you the oppertuinty to pick them up. In essence their guard is down and they will not reject your advancement. They lure you in not just by their looks but also by their behaviour.)
So she comes back to the table with the new chopsticks:
Her: thanks for watching my food.
Me: Don't thank me yet.....
Her: why??
Me: I have a confession to make...... I took a sip out of your juice while you were gone
Her: Oh no! (in a joking kind of matter)
Me: Hey I am just kidding, I wanted to see you drop those chopsticks again and shock you. I take it you are a big sushi fan
her: blah blah
I then start to shift the conversation as to "what were you doing in the mall" and she said she is working and its her first day and she is a bit nervous. She then started asking me what I am doing here and proceed to tell me that she got the new job after she broke up with her boyfriend before christmas( in my head I am thinking DING DING DING she is giving me headsup she is single).
But then she started going on about the breakup and the circumstances of it and I am thinking "fvck better stir the conversation somewhere else or I will end up being an emotional tampon".
I tell her before she continues: "forget about him! Its a new year, you got a new job its time to move on "(I placed my hand in front of her on the table and she kino'ed me and rubbed it). She then asked me If I am from New York because I sound like I am from there (I laughed cause deep down I remember one of my friends mentioning to me that sometimes when I get around woman I sound and act like Robert Deniro with a Bronx accent. I don't know why maybe because I get nervous and I try to act like a cool cat but it works!:crackup
I then proceed to ask her for her name and she asks for mine and I reached over to shake her hand (more kino). I continue talking to her and she finished her meal and needed to get back to work so simply said in the most casual tone and demenour "whats your number?!" as if I already expected for her to give it to me (If you act as if you are expected to get her number and believe it , instead of asking for it and hoping, your chances are much better of getting the number). So I took her number and left.
I am thinking I am most likely could end up as rebound guy with this chick (because she has been with her boyfriend many years) so I am not thinking too much about it because it could be something or nothing, you never know (from my past I know that chicks after big breakup tend to have short flings with guys and act bad until they get over the big breakup and when they do they are ready to be a good girl sagain and pretend and believe they never fvcked and acted bad, sounds fvcked up but its true). However I will try to get more girl's numbers this week because I do not want to get oneitis. I will keep posted if anything else develops.