“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Field Report: ...absolute failure?man, today sucked.

Patrick124

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lately I've gotten myself into a rut. I'm grounded for the next 2 weeks for doing some stupid ****. This has amde me kinda lose my game, I haven't ahd anyone to spit it to, no challenges[I'm fairly good with my game, i have about 4 girls who want me right now]. I've been locked in my house lol.

Well this HB 8, named M, wanted to chill with me. I don't have any history with this girl other than partying with her abit. SO I invited her over while my parents were at work. My little brother, i foundout, would also be at home with us. not really helpful.
So my living room isn't very couple-friendly, she ended up sitting on a single-person chair for a while, my litte bro on the other chair and me sitting across from her.
I kinoed her abit, grabbed her hand to read what ti said, almost sat in the cahir with her["my fat ass is to big i guess" she said] cause i declined cause ti woulda been uncomfortable as **** lol, she tried to make room for me though.
She got bored of we were watching os i said "you want to go watch a movie?" and we went upstrairs to my room. I discovered today: my room is a nerd-factory lol. I have a TMNT poster, a TMNT drawing i did 2 years ago framed, and a whole lotta anime stuff.
On my bed we were sitting on the end watchign and i go "this sin't very comfortable" so she looks like shes about to lie down. and instead turns to sit off to the side of my bed. IF ti means anything my door was open msot of the time and my little brother walked by a few times..so that mgihta scared her? She remained in that sitting position the rest of the 2 hours we were here, I woudl lie back and shove her jokingly, when i brushed mine hand on hers, she moved it away...she wasn't feeling em i guess.
But we ahd non-stop conversation the entire time she was here. I don't quite remember but I'm nto too sur ei was being funny. I was mro eor less pissed that nothing was going the way I wanted[murphy's law at is finest, eh?]

She ended up changing her leaving time from 4 to 3:30 because "she remembered her dad might be coming home today". btu when i dropped her off she actually plaeyd it like he was coming home early.

This was like so weird to me. I usually isolate girls, and in no time we're like on top of eachother. being in this hosue...its ****ing my game up.

i mgiht jsut me reading to deep into things?

Anyone got comments or critiques? thanks Dons.

edit: she also mentioned possibly coming back later this week? shes also grounded lol so maybe. btu i'll have to send my bro out somewhere lol.
 
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That time of the month maybe? She didnt seem like she was in the mood; maybe your little brother put her off or something.
 

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maybe. she has some disease, her body produces an inefficient amount of iron for her blood, she told me that makes her rag last 3 weeks lol.
 

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She may have been feeling you, but since she saw ur little bro, she may not have wanted to take the risk of getting caught. Like a lot of girls she may not be touchy touchy when their vulnerable of getting caught.

btw your game is NOT getting worse, just dont analyze as much and try to visualize your smoothest moments



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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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1. She wasnt in the mood for any number of various reasons, rags is a possibility, who knows.

2. You MAY of done something that turned her off while she was there, not sure what this could of been.

3. im pretty sure she was keen before she came, or she wouldnt of come to hang out with you alone.
 

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man..i dont beleive u would bring a girl in ur room..WITH that Dragon ball Z shyt on ur wall ROLF! Next time take it off.. Make her feel comfey..Offer if she wants anything to drink..anything to eat.. . Try again next time.
 

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not dragon ball z haha other ****. if anyone knows anime, Kenshin **** haha damn i'm weird sometimes.
I told her "after u left i realized my rooms weird as **** ahha, i took a whole buncha **** down." n she said she thoguht it allw as cute haha. guess it worke din my favor for the first time, but when she comes back its all gonna be gone.
i need some snowboarding posters man.

Thanks sammo, that made me think it all throguh alil more. I suggested we chill again. n she seems down for it again. i'll take whoevers walk idea ti was and probably do that. take her to the recently-abandoned hosue near me n **** up the walls n stuff[done it with girls before, they seem to enjoy it haha].
thansk boys.
 

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try going out, or going to her house....

haha yes i know kenshin...use to watch that when i was young. Now it's all about X-MEN and Sin city! ;)

No but really either change your room if you want to (it will bring a new confident atmosphere to you, like you have nothing to hide) or go to her house. Or go out somewhere...
 
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