"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FIELD REPORT - A different kind of sarge (Challenging the '3 second rule')

djaus111000

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So......tonights the first time i've been back her in a while, and - sick of the AFC bull**** i see going on, question after question on this forum, i've decided to give you my own real life experience, my efforts tonight.

IT is currently 3 am and i just got home, tonight, i decided to challenge a method used by PUA's worldwide, the 3 second rule (ie, you must approach a girl you wish to game in 3 seconds)...

So, i'm at a club, HB8 catches my eye, instead of going the approach, i pawn a group of other guys with 1 girl and eventually work my way, through body language directing conversation, to being just behind her, i waited, didn't approach, continued dancing with my friends and new found friends....this continued for a while. After about 20 minutes of "ignoring" her, i went to the bar for a drink, upon my return, i used hthe clubs smallness to my advantage, getting in HB8s eyesight, whilst dancing with a female friend (social proof). This pattern continued for a while, then HB8 approached me.

HB8 - "whats your name?"
Aus - "John, listen, have you been following me?"
HB8 - "no, have you been following me?"
Aus - "Better luck next time sweetheart"


Continued dancing, shoulders tisll pointing away from each other, but coming closer......then, her friend decided to bail, and she followed......THEN to make matters worth, my wings and female friends also decided to leave, leaving me with no social proof.

So, after a bit of real experience for you boys, (though nothing outstanding) i ask, what owuld you do in this situation, this put me out completely, and i had no idea what to do, so moved on to a different club and then home!

Advice please my fellow PUAs

Aus
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ChrizZ

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You ignored her for 20mins???
YOU should have approached her way earlier.
 

Ratisson

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"Better luck next time sweetheart" What the fvck were u doing? U completely rejected a hot girl who showed signs of interest in u. What u should have done differently was keep the convo going, maybe then she would have followed u home instead of following her friend home.
 

G-Theory

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djaus111000 said:
Aus - "Better luck next time sweetheart"
OMG I almost died!! :crackup:

Now I know what to say when I want to go home by myself!

I do say though, mad props for getting into the field and testing your ideas. :up: Keep us posted.
 
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