"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FIELD REPORT #6: Facebook failure?

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Marlimus

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I poked a female who was a friend of a friend because I thought she was kinda cute.

She requests me as a friend. I play it cool by waiting a few days before accepting (perhaps my mistake?) She's a nursing major, and I send her this message:
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I'm gonna direct a movie called Not Another Nursing Major. Wanna star in it? Its going to be funny as hell. You get to walk around in uncomfortable white outfits, smell like disinfectant, and dodge out of the way as dirty old men try to make passes at you while you change their bedsheets.
It'll make your career, baby! I'll have my people call your people, and we'll do lunch. Ciao!
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That was a week ago. No response yet. What do you guys think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nice. Very nice C&F message....I like the way you role play that message and I think its a great way to pace her ongoing reality. No reason why this message wouldnt get a response.

~Smooth
 
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Originally posted by Marlimus
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I'm gonna direct a movie called Not Another Nursing Major. Wanna star in it? Its going to be funny as hell. You get to walk around in uncomfortable white outfits, smell like disinfectant, and dodge out of the way as dirty old men try to make passes at you while you change their bedsheets.
It'll make your career, baby! I'll have my people call your people, and we'll do lunch. Ciao!
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That was a week ago. No response yet. What do you guys think?
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Just a guess: maybe the image you pictured is too .. negative?
dirty...uncomfortable..disinfectant, bedsheets...
Maybe she is not just into that type of humor?
 
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