About a month and a half ago, I broke it off with my now ex-girlfriend. She was being controlling and needy, and I had a life to live, so I'm now living it without her.
Last night I went to a local concert with a bunch of friends of mine. We were having a complete blast, dancing to the band and not having a care in the world.
About halfway through the set I decided I needed to get another drink, and use the washroom. So I left the front of the stage to do this.
On my jaunt to the washroom I noticed that the girl selling beer had a mohawk. Like, a full-fledged mohawk. Not only that, she was really attractive and in great shape. I usually don't make a habit of gaming mugslingers, but I had to make an exception this time.
Me: Ok, that mohawk is hardcore! Holy ****.
HBhawk: (flattered) thank you.
Me: You're only selling beer here?
HBhawk: No, coolers too.
Me: That won't do. However, I didn't come over here to leave empty handed. You're going to give me your MSN now.
HBhawk: *****@hotmail.com (without hesitation)
Me: That is a killer hawk(I run my hand through it)
HBhawk: (smiles genuinely) Thank you.
One contact info done! I turn the corner to head down the stairs and at the foot of the stairs is a girl who I am slightly acquainted with - a friend of a friend. She has a very Avril Lavigne type look to her, only taller and hotter.
HBAvril: Hey! Enjoying the show?
Me: Yeah, its great!
HBAvril: Totally. The opening band was awesome too. Did you see them?
Me: Yeah, they were. Everyone was into it. Hey, listen, I gotta get back to the show so what's your MSN?
HBAvril: *****@hotmail.com
Me: Ok, I'll talk to you later. See ya.
Two down. By this time I really had to take a leak and was very happy that there were no more girls between me and the washroom.
Destination two: the bar. I look to my left to see a sexy blonde, short, not quite my type but still hot, something that would be called 'conventional'.
Me: You're getting a rum and coke aren't you?
HBblonde: Yes, how did you know?
Me: I didn't until now.
HBblonde: hahaha. Nice to meet you anyway, I'm HBblonde. What's your name.
Me: Luveno.
So the conversation lasted about one minute, the usual drivel about how good the band was etc. So I left and went back to the front of the stage.
Five minutes later, who is up there pushing the guys out of the way but little HBblonde. She almost knocked over one of the monitors!!!
HBblonde: Hey!!!(grabs me and hugs me)
Me: Oh you're hardcore. Right to the front of the stage knocking everything over. Someone's gotta tie you up.
HBblonde: maybe...if I let them(that sexy look). You got MSN?
Me: Yes, but you won't remember it. I'll remember yours though - I remember everything.
HBblonde: ok, its *****@hotmail.com.
Me; I'll be sure to get in touch.
So I kept dancing with my friends and we were having an excellent time. I met a few more guys there and we all just got together and sequestered the front of the stage. What a good show. So, by the end of it I wanted to get another email so I asked the tall girl dancing behind me for hers:
I just kinda looked at her in the eyes, and she looked back and smiled. So I came right out with it:
Me: What a great concert. What's your name.
HBtall: HBtall.
Me: HBtall...suits you. You seem interesting, got msn?
HBtall: yeah, here it is(she told me twice so I would remember).
Me: excellent. I'll chat with you later.
So that was my first real time back into the field since my LTR went sour.
To all you aspiring DJs, the main advice I have is to just do it! Take what you want!
One of the most important things you can do is take charge of the conversation. Control the flow, and the topics of choice. Listen, but be in control.
Another thing guys should do is escalate contact. The words that come out of your mouth only really exist for you to get contact info. The attraction is done via body language. For instance, the first thing that a man should do when approaching a woman is to maintain eye contact. I'm not saying stare her down. I'm not saying avert your eyes. I'm saying to look her in the eyes when she's speaking, or when you speak. If that goes well you have to initiate what they call 'kino' around here. In fast situations like this what I do is just hug them, maybe lift them up while doing it, to see if they're into it. If they reciprocate or stay close after you're done, the approach is a success. If not, it could be a failure(but can be salvaged).
I get MSNs because I only use the phone for important things like business, family, and friends. I also hate talking on the phone. There is a lot of talk saying that getting phone numbers is more effective. I disagree. My track record in following up women successfully using MSNs has been ridiculously high. If it ain't broken, don't fix it. So do what you find comfortable.
Last night I went to a local concert with a bunch of friends of mine. We were having a complete blast, dancing to the band and not having a care in the world.
About halfway through the set I decided I needed to get another drink, and use the washroom. So I left the front of the stage to do this.
On my jaunt to the washroom I noticed that the girl selling beer had a mohawk. Like, a full-fledged mohawk. Not only that, she was really attractive and in great shape. I usually don't make a habit of gaming mugslingers, but I had to make an exception this time.
Me: Ok, that mohawk is hardcore! Holy ****.
HBhawk: (flattered) thank you.
Me: You're only selling beer here?
HBhawk: No, coolers too.
Me: That won't do. However, I didn't come over here to leave empty handed. You're going to give me your MSN now.
HBhawk: *****@hotmail.com (without hesitation)
Me: That is a killer hawk(I run my hand through it)
HBhawk: (smiles genuinely) Thank you.
One contact info done! I turn the corner to head down the stairs and at the foot of the stairs is a girl who I am slightly acquainted with - a friend of a friend. She has a very Avril Lavigne type look to her, only taller and hotter.
HBAvril: Hey! Enjoying the show?
Me: Yeah, its great!
HBAvril: Totally. The opening band was awesome too. Did you see them?
Me: Yeah, they were. Everyone was into it. Hey, listen, I gotta get back to the show so what's your MSN?
HBAvril: *****@hotmail.com
Me: Ok, I'll talk to you later. See ya.
Two down. By this time I really had to take a leak and was very happy that there were no more girls between me and the washroom.
Destination two: the bar. I look to my left to see a sexy blonde, short, not quite my type but still hot, something that would be called 'conventional'.
Me: You're getting a rum and coke aren't you?
HBblonde: Yes, how did you know?
Me: I didn't until now.
HBblonde: hahaha. Nice to meet you anyway, I'm HBblonde. What's your name.
Me: Luveno.
So the conversation lasted about one minute, the usual drivel about how good the band was etc. So I left and went back to the front of the stage.
Five minutes later, who is up there pushing the guys out of the way but little HBblonde. She almost knocked over one of the monitors!!!
HBblonde: Hey!!!(grabs me and hugs me)
Me: Oh you're hardcore. Right to the front of the stage knocking everything over. Someone's gotta tie you up.
HBblonde: maybe...if I let them(that sexy look). You got MSN?
Me: Yes, but you won't remember it. I'll remember yours though - I remember everything.
HBblonde: ok, its *****@hotmail.com.
Me; I'll be sure to get in touch.
So I kept dancing with my friends and we were having an excellent time. I met a few more guys there and we all just got together and sequestered the front of the stage. What a good show. So, by the end of it I wanted to get another email so I asked the tall girl dancing behind me for hers:
I just kinda looked at her in the eyes, and she looked back and smiled. So I came right out with it:
Me: What a great concert. What's your name.
HBtall: HBtall.
Me: HBtall...suits you. You seem interesting, got msn?
HBtall: yeah, here it is(she told me twice so I would remember).
Me: excellent. I'll chat with you later.
So that was my first real time back into the field since my LTR went sour.
To all you aspiring DJs, the main advice I have is to just do it! Take what you want!
One of the most important things you can do is take charge of the conversation. Control the flow, and the topics of choice. Listen, but be in control.
Another thing guys should do is escalate contact. The words that come out of your mouth only really exist for you to get contact info. The attraction is done via body language. For instance, the first thing that a man should do when approaching a woman is to maintain eye contact. I'm not saying stare her down. I'm not saying avert your eyes. I'm saying to look her in the eyes when she's speaking, or when you speak. If that goes well you have to initiate what they call 'kino' around here. In fast situations like this what I do is just hug them, maybe lift them up while doing it, to see if they're into it. If they reciprocate or stay close after you're done, the approach is a success. If not, it could be a failure(but can be salvaged).
I get MSNs because I only use the phone for important things like business, family, and friends. I also hate talking on the phone. There is a lot of talk saying that getting phone numbers is more effective. I disagree. My track record in following up women successfully using MSNs has been ridiculously high. If it ain't broken, don't fix it. So do what you find comfortable.