"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Field Report #3 Same bar as usual

Dannyrt34

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Alright guys, I have another field report from the same bar that I been going to the past 3 weeks. My first 2 field reports were with the same chick but tonite was completely different. I took my friend Mike to the bar because it was his 23rd birthday tonight.

Anyway, we go to the bar and we did a birthday round of soco-lime. We stood around and chatted for a good while. I like to get warmed up and in a talkative mood before I start approaching girls so I started talking to everyone around me. Things were going well when I finally spotted a cutie I wanted to approach.

I usually get nervous so I decided not to sit around and think about it first, and just made my approach right away. I walk up to her and just said "hey!" that's all, lol, nothing special. And she was very responsive! Very talkative too, there was never a dull moment. We ended up talking alot about what we were drinkin, our jobs, college, my buddy's birthday, all kinds of stuff. It felt very easy with her.

Anyway, as our conversation went on I found out she has a bf (Why do all the chicks I meet end up having bfs?) But she still seemed interested, so I decided to ask her more questions as why she likes him, and what he does for her and stuff. I got a whole lot of negative answers from her! I can't remember our exact words but it was kind of like this:

Me: So do you have a bf?
Her: Yea I've been with him for 5 1/2 years on and off, but things are kind of rocky
Me: How so?
Her: He never really takes me out, and when we do go out, he gets so trashed to the point where I just have to take care of him.
Me: (laughing) So wait! Besides the fact that you've been together for five and a half years, why are you with him?
Her: That's pretty much the only reason.

It went something like that, but during our conversation we exchanged numbers, and she invited me to a different bar. So I grabbed my friend and we followed her to the other bar (she is a bartender here). We got there, and it was a quieter atmosphere and easier to talk. She bought me a shot, and a beer. That's when I accused her of trying to get me drunk. We shared a lot of laughs together, and overall had a good time. She invited me to go out again tomorrow night. And I told her I'll have to let her know. Anyway, I'm just excited about another good night I had, and wanted to share with the rest of you. Thanks for reading.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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