Field Report 2: Time Constraint and Abundance

[Konada]

@guru1000

I had to work a good game to get this girl HB6.5 out on a date while I was working other prospects as well. In the end she asked me out for a drink.

Key notes:
- I was present in the moment, kino is really just clockwork to me right now.

- Lots of reciprocation and caressing

- At one point I put her arms around me and pressed her into me, c0ck semihard

- Rejected my kiss mid date twice (She turned her head up and said 'Nope' with a slight smile)

- Ended off with a hug, asking me to text her when I get home. Which obviously I'm not going to do.

Thoughts?

 

[JohnChops]

She just read the latest cosmo blog about "Ten ways to get and keep him hard, be hard to get!" and is playing bs games in an attempt to peak your interest and see how far you will let her play.

If I was in that situation I'd withdraw my attention, slightly.

 

[guru1000]

Konada:

First, respect for having the balls to go for the kiss twice mid-date. Herein is the most important DJ attribute.

It may surprise you to know that my ex-wife rejected my first date kiss attempt, and my current gf who is an ex-playboy model (yes, I did get back with her) rejected my first-date kiss three times.

Conventional DJ wisdom and other "gurus" will tell you if she rejects your first-date kiss, she is not interested. I can tell you unequivocally this is not the case. Here are seven reasons why a girl may reject your first date kiss:

1) She is not interested in you;
2) She comes from a traditional or religious background where first-date kisses are not customary;
3) She is not yet comfortable with you;
4) You projected a significant player vibe, so ASD is at its height;
5) She is game-playing;
6) She doesn't want you to view her as "easy";
7) She just doesn't kiss on the first date.

This is not to be confused with a girl who rejects your first-date kiss as automatically interested, but rather that she is not automatically disinterested.

What to do at this point? Text/call her and ask for the date.

 

[Konada]

Konada:

First, respect for having the balls to go for the kiss twice mid-date. Herein is the most important DJ attribute.

It may surprise you to know that my ex-wife rejected my first date kiss attempt, and my current gf who is an ex-playboy model (yes, I did get back with her) rejected my first-date kiss three times.

Conventional DJ wisdom and other "gurus" will tell you if she rejects your first-date kiss, she is not interested. I can tell you unequivocally this is not the case. Here are seven reasons why a girl may reject your first date kiss:

1) She is not interested in you;
2) She comes from a traditional or religious background where first-date kisses are not customary;
3) She is not yet comfortable with you;
4) You projected a significant player vibe, so ASD is at its height;
5) She is game-playing;
6) She doesn't want you to view her as "easy";
7) She just doesn't kiss on the first date.

This is not to be confused with a girl who rejects your first-date kiss as automatically interested, but rather that she is not automatically disinterested.

What to do at this point? Text/call her and ask for the date.

I'm more interested in 4) since I'm triggering alot of 'So how's your tinder experience so far?', 'Do you bring alot of girls here often? You seem very sure of yourself.'

I just reply "I don't kiss and tell."