“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Field Report #2! Best week ever!!!

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Alright for those of you that read my last weeks field report. This week turned out even better.

Last week I met a gorgeous girl at my local bar which is a college hotspot. Nothing major turned out from it as we just had basic small talk, and a few hugs here and there. I did end up with the number.

This week, me and my cousin decide to go to the same bar. We walk in and bought a drink, then we stood there and observed everyone around us. Some people were dancing, most were standing around chatting. We stood around for about 5 minutes and then somebody behind me tapped me on the shoulder. I turned around, and wouldn't you know, the same GORGEOUS girl was sitting right behind me. I said hi and gave her a hug, then we made some more small talk. I felt kind of sh'tty because it felt like the conversation wasn't really progressing to being flirty that much. She was so beautiful and all I could ask her was how college has been and stuff. So I made the conversation short and then returned to my cousin and we had a few more beers.

Later, after about a half hour, I returned to the hot girl. She looked great wearing some heels and very tight pants, her ass looked amazing. And once again her face was just plain beautiful.

The conversation started to flow more naturally this time. She told me she was really glad I came there. I went back and forth between this girl and my other friends I ran into at the bar.

At one point when I approached her, she grabbed my hand and said "Come do a shot with me." So we walked over to the bar, and she paid for it! So we had our shot and continued talking. I feel bad when people buy stuff for me, not just girls, anybody. So I returned the favor and offered the next shot. This time I grabbed her hand and let her to the other bar and while we were waiting to get served, I began to initiate some kino. Basically rubbing her shoulders, and at one point I put my arm around her and she laid her head on my shoulder. At this point, my confidence began to rise and our conversations flowed even more naturally.

So after our next shot, we went out onto the dance floor and basically had a huge kino-fest. Mine and her friends were all dancing around with each other. I had my hands on her hips, and she grabbed my hands and wrapped them around her. Then she turned around and looked up at me. Our eyes met, and she smiled, but we both didn't say a word. That's when we both leaned in and just kissed lightly. No major makeout, just a kiss, but it sent my confidence soring. At this point, we were all over each other the rest of the night. Constantly wrapping our arms around each other, and just basically having a great time.

We had a few more dances, and then my cousin walked up behind me and said he's ready to leave (he drove). So I told her I had to go and she gave me her baby face. We hugged and kissed once more, and she said she would like to see me again.

Then me and my cousin left. I gotta tell you guys, I feel great. I even thought this girl was out of my league but she has to be interested in me. I hope I continue to make progress with this chick and we'll see where it goes. Thanks for reading guys. I'll keep everyone updated!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Last week I met a gorgeous girl at my local bar which is a college hotspot.
I always wait to read here: And then I gave her ruffies and the rest was so fuking easy from there. .... Sorry, carry on. I know, I just hate reading long field reports.
 

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But that was a great story man. I hope she gives you play on your date. You just going to show up at that bar again?
 

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awesome story, what i noticed was how you said it flowed naturally, none of this, "then i neg hit her 4 times with a screening test threaded beneath the neg hits," props to you man, great story and i hope you the best with her.
 

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theobserver said:
awesome story, what i noticed was how you said it flowed naturally, none of this, "then i neg hit her 4 times with a screening test threaded beneath the neg hits," props to you man, great story and i hope you the best with her.
I do notice alot of guys posting field reports try to follow way too many rules given on this site. We forget that everyone, yes even women, are human. Sometimes it's just nice to be REAL with somebody. I personally always just try to be genuine, and being yourself really is underestimated. I believe that after approaching a girl you should always just do what feels 'right' in the situation. Nobody should look for times to do things they learned from reading advice on this site. Instead just go with the flow and do what you feel is right in the moment.

Anyway. I already have an update. The girl sent me a text already saying it was nice hanging out with me tonight. I just said "you too, I'm going to bed I'll talk tomorrow".

As somebody who's recently single out of a miserable relationship. I forgot how good it feels to be single and do well with a fresh, new girl. I wish this feeling would last forever.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Success will find those who are too cool to look for it.
 

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daygameguy said:
Success will find those who are too cool to look for it.
I'm not really sure what that means but thanks.. lol

Update for you all:

Called her tonight, and I found out she has a boyfriend (ouch). She explained her situation to me. She said he's an ashole, and told me not to be mad. She said she felt more happy after our night together than he ever makes her feel. I guess that explains why she was so cuddly at the bar, he probably doesn't do that stuff with her. So basically she has a boyfriend but likes me better.

I told her I'm not mad at her. I actually thanked her for being honest with me and not leading me on/playing games/leaving me hanging. And then tried to make some jokes to lighten the mood since our conversation was getting a bit serious.

I think I'll still talk to her to see what happens, but I'll leave my options open too and continue to go out looking for other girls.

I thought about this whole situation alot. And normally if I'd find out she had a boyfriend I'd probably just be like "Well, call me when your single." and leave it at that. But I stated in my previous post that I recently got out of a pretty miserable relationship.

So in a way, I can relate to her. I know how it feels to be stuck in a relationship and really want to find somebody else. This is probably why I'm still giving her a chance. I'm not getting my hopes up though.
 
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