“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FIELD REPORT #14: #close and extended date

Marlimus

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Location: Orangeburg, South Carolina (temporary)

I was walking around this small, dead town and popped into a beauty supply store out of sheer boredom. There is nothing to do in Orangeburg. I was walking around the store, then turned to the counter and asked the girl there if they have anything for acne or skin. Turns out, she's cute, an HB7.5. She says she'll come on down and show me. She shows me the stuff, we talk about products for a minute or two, and I get the vibe she's interested. I ask her for her name, she tells me, asks me mine (IOI) I ask if she speaks Spanish, she says yeah, I chat with her in Spanish for a bit and she asks me where I'm from because she detects an accent. At that point I ask her for her phone number, I hand her my cell phone and she punches it in. I leave. It felt weird because I didn't use any game, no ****y and funny, no mystery method. The whole thing felt pretty average, as though I didn't use any skill.

I call a few days later, but she's not there. I don't leave a message. She calls back the next day, turns out its her day off. We chat, and I ask her to meet. She agrees to pick me up in front of my house. She comes late, and I scold her by telling her that I was on my way to the gym instead, but I still hop in the car. She brought an UG friend with her. I seize control of the frame, and its on. Frame games and ****y and funny down the line.

She tells me I'm too young because I'm 20 and she's 26. I tell her, "No. You're too old." She and her friend gasp. We get to applebee's to eat and she's about to walk through the door, when she stops by the door and says, "Oh! you can open it for me." I smile and say absolutely not, and do not move. She and her friend gasp again, and she walks in. she asks me what that was about, and I tell her that I think all chivalry is bull****. She keeps attacking me, but i hold my ground. She aks me If I would pay for a girl's dinner, and I said no. She teases and tests, and I throw them back in her face. She teases me by sayin I'm crazy, I tease her and tell her that she talks too much. When she gets excited and starts talking to her friend rapidly, I pull my chair away and give her a sideways glance as though she's a nutcase. She cracks up. I turn to face sideways, and she mirrors my action, which is a powerful indicator of interest. I lean back at all times, even when she leans forward. I trash talk the HB playfully to her ugly friend, and she laps it up. HB says; you're cool. My response:
"I know."

WE leave. She drops off the ugly friend, and she's about to drop me back to my house when I suggest we see a movie. she agrees, we go to see Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire. Its a 45 minute drive to Colombia, and this woman talks nonstop, asking a ****load of questions, too. We get to the ticket stand. I say:
"One please." The ticket guy tells me its only 5 dollars, so I cover her, because up in NJ its 8-12 dollars. WE watch the flick, and she suddenly snuggles up against my arm and rests her head on my shoulder.I rest my head on hers, and play with her hair and stroke her face throughout the movie.
In retrospect, this was a mistake. I should have used ****y and funny by saying "Not yet, you have to buy me dinner first. What kind of guy do you think I am?" But I just wanted to enjoy the moment.

We leave. On the drive back to Orangeburg she gives me her home phone number and talks nonstop again, telling me **** I really didn't want to hear, like how she once had a urinary tract infection. (uh!) too much information. Turns out, we listen to a lot of the same music, and she lends me one of her CD's. We pull up to the house, and when I go for the kiss close, she gives me the cheek turn. I am unfazed for some reason. My instincts told me that I didn't have to go for the kclose then and there, but i pushed for it anyway. I didn't get the kiss close, but I felt as though I played it well. Comments?
 

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Nice try on the kiss close. You always have to try. Also on lending the CD, thats a reason for another date so that you can return it. About the door opening... you could have said " ladies first so you can open it for me" instead of cussing imo.
 

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