Ryan
Master Don Juan
Read the whole thing:
1) The Girl
2) How we met
3) The date
She tries to fake my accent and says" Ohh you think your going to get a kiss at the end of the date?", she then says:
" I only kiss on the cheek Im boring", she gives me a peck on the cheek, then I said you missed the other cheek, and she said you only get one kiss per a date lol
I dont think I had stronger frame on the date.
4) Aftermath
Ok so rate and critique?
Please if you haven't gotten laid in the past three months, dont bother replying.
Thank you for your time. If you need anymore information just ask.
Question: Is it bad to think about your 'plates' when you masturbate?
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What I did well:
Mistakes I committed:
What I will do next time:
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@Amante Silvestre
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1) The Girl
- 18 year old College Freshman
- Type-->> Quiet Loner, but relatively confident
- Looks: 7 (yeah im improving lol.)
- Slightly mental: Claimed to being overly paranoid, and anxious (panic attacks)
2) How we met
- Standard routine..we matched on Bumble, a few messages, I told her I wanted to go the museum and she said 'we should go' (interest?), then I escalated to text
- We originally planned on meeting on wednesday to go to the musuem, but I called her last night, and thought Id ask her for tea after work tonight.
- Conversation was decent: she told me her parents died (after I asked her if she lives with her aunt), I shared with her my tragedy, then we decided that I was going to pick her up after work.
3) The date
- I show up on time -->> I am on the phone with another 'plate' while waiting for her to change out of her work uniform, as soon as I see her getting into the car, I tell plate "I gotta go I will call you later" , but the funny thing was while she was greeting me I did not hang up on plate yet (so plate could of heard? but thats not what this thread is about)
- She gets in the car, we drive to Tim Hortons (coffeeshop), I ask about how was work, she says it was boring. In the car she asks me if I have been on a date since moving to the city before, I said "yes but there was no connection". I returned the question to her and she says I'm her first OLD date, I reply " I am honored" , she retorts "you should be". She said some other guy asked her to hang out with her, but he was creepy.
- At Tim Hortons, we get tea (interesting enough she offers to pay, but I insist lol) I sit next to her (french style), the whole time im thinking when I should put my arm around her...there were some silent pauses, but I didnt feel entirely comfortable, felt a bit intimidated. I didn't get her humour etc (even asked what she thinks the funniest comedy is )
- I did put my arm around her, but not her body but the top of the booth. She mentioned how creepy the other guy was on bumble...so this decreased my motivation to escalate. But when I did put my arm around her, I didn't notice any resistance.
- I made a mental note to end the date first, so when she came back from the washroom, I was like you want to head out? She was like 'Its up to you'...then I was like yeah its late (near 11pm), and we made our way to the car.
- Car ride home: She gave me her address, which I put into the GPS, and then drove her to her house (she lives in a rich neighbourhood) pull up at her house thinking we could chat in the car a bit, I put on chapstick and offer her some?
She tries to fake my accent and says" Ohh you think your going to get a kiss at the end of the date?", she then says:
" I only kiss on the cheek Im boring", she gives me a peck on the cheek, then I said you missed the other cheek, and she said you only get one kiss per a date lol
- She says thank you for the tea, and have a great night.
I dont think I had stronger frame on the date.
4) Aftermath
- Should i wait until Thursday to go to the museum? or try to ask her out for Tuesday?
- I mean aside from my place, what is a kino conducive activity?
Ok so rate and critique?
Please if you haven't gotten laid in the past three months, dont bother replying.
Thank you for your time. If you need anymore information just ask.
Question: Is it bad to think about your 'plates' when you masturbate?
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What I did well:
- Initiated the end of the date (false time constraint)
- Told some funny stories / made her laugh
- Stared into her eyes
Mistakes I committed:
- Stuttered (cant help that)
- Escalated too slow: never put arm around her
- No "boyfriending" moves: I should of done some bf moves, wipe away hair off her arm, cater to her, dry off her sweater when she spilt tea on it.
- Not playful and sexual enough---> some one please show me?
What I will do next time:
- Put my arm around her body---not the furniture surrounding her body
- Escalate----> guage reaction----> green light? keep escalating
- <<please add>>
Oh and please do the poll http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/personal-study-please-participate-in-the-poll.248714/
@Amante Silvestre
@ImTheDoubleGreatest! @Igetit! @3agle3yes @MrWood @dude99 @RangerMIke @marmel75
@logicallefty @VladPatton @sph21 @Alvafe @Mauser96@Julian @JohnChops @Mazer @Desdinova @sph21 @MidnightCity @deesade @guru1000 @Dash Riprock @ubercat @Murkserious @Poonani Maker @NSX-R @Knight of Roses @skinnyguy @wifehunter @AJ84