“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
field report (08/16/03)
- Thread starter Dee-Zy
- Start date
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Sorry to hear that bro...
Well I had a blast this weekend
Picked up this chick with class, oh man its been a while since I had to really work hard for a *****. AND I FU@KING love the challenge
My only worry, trying to keep my cool.
Well I had a blast this weekend
Picked up this chick with class, oh man its been a while since I had to really work hard for a *****. AND I FU@KING love the challenge
My only worry, trying to keep my cool.
I would like to feel sorry for ya, but...
This was hands down the worst field report I have ever read.
No details, no reasoning, just frustration. How do you expect us to help you here? How can you improve your game with this attitude, especially blaming other people for your problems? I have tons of AFC friends and even when they c0ckblock I dont let them faze me.
Next time post something with substance and maybe you will get the answers you seek. In the meantime, be happy man. You are a budding DJ and hiphop artist. Take this frustration and turn it into inspiration over phat, funky beats or something.
DR out
This was hands down the worst field report I have ever read.
No details, no reasoning, just frustration. How do you expect us to help you here? How can you improve your game with this attitude, especially blaming other people for your problems? I have tons of AFC friends and even when they c0ckblock I dont let them faze me.
Next time post something with substance and maybe you will get the answers you seek. In the meantime, be happy man. You are a budding DJ and hiphop artist. Take this frustration and turn it into inspiration over phat, funky beats or something.
DR out
drixsa
Master Don Juan
WASTE OF SPACE
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Dee-Zy
Master Don Juan
I just got back from work ... I did almost 12 fukkin hours and I had like 3-4 hours of sleep. As if I'll type up my whole fukkin night when I have 10 min left to go to work.
Imma be back with more details latter. I need to take a shower N take a smoke.
I didn't post to ask for help. I posted for myself.
Imma be back with more details latter. I need to take a shower N take a smoke.
I didn't post to ask for help. I posted for myself.
squirrels
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I believe the predominant question is what you have to gain from posting it on THIS forum.
If you want to post about how work sucks, there's the Anything Else forum.
Then you post "field report" when this is nothing CLOSE to a field report.
Not sure what you were aiming for.
Wow, what an attitude problem you have.
No wonder you are havin trouble in the field. Its obvious you are the source of your own problems. Maybe if you stopped complaining about your life and taking such offense to any sort of criticism, you would be a lot more fun to talk to.
Just a suggestion dude...RELAX!
As far your penis suggestion goes, I find it interesting that you envision me this way. Maybe you need to do some soul-searching and decide whether you are on the right forum, eh fruitcake?
No wonder you are havin trouble in the field. Its obvious you are the source of your own problems. Maybe if you stopped complaining about your life and taking such offense to any sort of criticism, you would be a lot more fun to talk to.
Just a suggestion dude...RELAX!
As far your penis suggestion goes, I find it interesting that you envision me this way. Maybe you need to do some soul-searching and decide whether you are on the right forum, eh fruitcake?
Player_Supreme
Banned
sorry to here that El-Deezy.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
good one
ease up there killa
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Come back when you have a real field report and quit being such a pu$$y!!
Grow up!
M.A.C.
Grow up!
M.A.C.
Dee-Zy
Master Don Juan
U guys are a bunch of hypocrites. U know jack sh1t about my life and you jump to conclusions. Blasting me, about my 'not-a-FR-post'. Telling me it's a waste of space, when instead of being smart and leave this thread get bumped down to 2 or 3 pages, U MUST reply to it and preach.
You're all just a bunch of newbies I laugh at whatever you have to say - Registered since June 2003??? What nerves. It's what-so-called-DJs like you that ruins this board. Fukk do u know about this board? Don't come here telling me I don't contribute to this board. I've been here since this board was a UBB. Since 2000. I was here before you even knew about this board existed. I was here within 2 months of this boards existence. Fukk do u guys know? This is ridiculous, whenever I ask real questions, none of y'all reply for sh!t but if I just post a incomplete senseless posts u jump on it and start giving sh1t. Pathetic. How easier is it to blasts people, rather then helping them? There are ppl out there with problems and more words but u don't reply to them cuz it's too long to read yet if u see a small post like this you waste your time on it. Worst! You reply again after I replied. Don Ronny, I feel sorry for you. You couldn't even hang with the real world if it takes a book for u to have a come back. Drixsa, very manly - I guess it shows how you are the man now huh? idiots.
Like I said before, I didn't have time so I just posted something real quick.
Now, what happened.
I decided to go to Cosmo with two of my friends since we are sick and tired of Gatineau Clubs (That's where I live) and Nic said that Ottawa's dead, so Only choices left are Cosmo and Bop. Plus bop sucks nowadays. Dancefloor is too small and it's just packed with wannabe thugs. A real lady knows better.
Get in Cosmo, it's passed midnight - we were glad to see no line up just to be dissapointed with a club and ... less then 40 ppl. NO hot girls whatsoever. I single handed counted all the girls in the club. They were 18.
At the bar, a girl asked me a for a smoke and my friend gave her one. I striked a convo with her - but god damn it's anoying pursuing a convo with ordinary girls. She had a cute smile and had more what of somesort of confidence, but that's all what she had going on with her. Since the club was so empty, I asked the bartender. I ended talking with her for the rest of the night. I was stupid though - great opportunity to get with a bartender. Now that I think about it, she was hinting me great convo directions.
So anyways, we went home and on the way back I got into a fight with one of my friend.
Woot a night.
You're all just a bunch of newbies I laugh at whatever you have to say - Registered since June 2003??? What nerves. It's what-so-called-DJs like you that ruins this board. Fukk do u know about this board? Don't come here telling me I don't contribute to this board. I've been here since this board was a UBB. Since 2000. I was here before you even knew about this board existed. I was here within 2 months of this boards existence. Fukk do u guys know? This is ridiculous, whenever I ask real questions, none of y'all reply for sh!t but if I just post a incomplete senseless posts u jump on it and start giving sh1t. Pathetic. How easier is it to blasts people, rather then helping them? There are ppl out there with problems and more words but u don't reply to them cuz it's too long to read yet if u see a small post like this you waste your time on it. Worst! You reply again after I replied. Don Ronny, I feel sorry for you. You couldn't even hang with the real world if it takes a book for u to have a come back. Drixsa, very manly - I guess it shows how you are the man now huh? idiots.
Like I said before, I didn't have time so I just posted something real quick.
Now, what happened.
I decided to go to Cosmo with two of my friends since we are sick and tired of Gatineau Clubs (That's where I live) and Nic said that Ottawa's dead, so Only choices left are Cosmo and Bop. Plus bop sucks nowadays. Dancefloor is too small and it's just packed with wannabe thugs. A real lady knows better.
Get in Cosmo, it's passed midnight - we were glad to see no line up just to be dissapointed with a club and ... less then 40 ppl. NO hot girls whatsoever. I single handed counted all the girls in the club. They were 18.
At the bar, a girl asked me a for a smoke and my friend gave her one. I striked a convo with her - but god damn it's anoying pursuing a convo with ordinary girls. She had a cute smile and had more what of somesort of confidence, but that's all what she had going on with her. Since the club was so empty, I asked the bartender. I ended talking with her for the rest of the night. I was stupid though - great opportunity to get with a bartender. Now that I think about it, she was hinting me great convo directions.
So anyways, we went home and on the way back I got into a fight with one of my friend.
Woot a night.
squirrels
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No one's saying you don't contribute...your motives for the initial post are questionable, that's all. If you don't have time to say anything, wait until you DO have something to say.
I know how you feel, though. It seems like the women get worse and worse every time I go clubbing. What happens is a new place'll open up, then all the girls will start hanging out there, dancing, having fun...
Then a couple of guys will "stumble" across this place. Note that this is the IDEAL time to "find" a club, because there are tons of hot, horny women and you, being one of the few men around, are a commodity.
After those guys get hooked up, they immediately tell their friends about this "hot new spot" where there are so many hot chicks...and then those friends tell their friends, and soon the club is swamped with horny dudes, many of them slobbering AFCs and drunk losers. The girls get overwhelmed and go elsewhere...so you're eventually left with a crowd of dudes.
After that, the guys say to themselves, "This sucks! There are no women!" (except for the 45 year old loser hags that are looking for an easy lay) and they move on too. Then you have an empty club. What happens? The women start coming again and the cycle completes itself.
I remember 3 or 4 years ago, this one club in Baltimore was ALWAYS jumping...EVERY girl in there was absolutely f--kable, and they were daring, too.
I went in there Saturday night and I could count the number of bangable girls on one hand. So many sagging older sluts sitting around, a few bachelorette parties full of ugly girls, and all kinds of loser dudes hoping for an easy lay. It was depressing.
I think I know where the girls went, but by the time I got in line, it was pouring down rain and I had to go home.
Better luck next time I suppose.
I know how you feel, though. It seems like the women get worse and worse every time I go clubbing. What happens is a new place'll open up, then all the girls will start hanging out there, dancing, having fun...
Then a couple of guys will "stumble" across this place. Note that this is the IDEAL time to "find" a club, because there are tons of hot, horny women and you, being one of the few men around, are a commodity.
After those guys get hooked up, they immediately tell their friends about this "hot new spot" where there are so many hot chicks...and then those friends tell their friends, and soon the club is swamped with horny dudes, many of them slobbering AFCs and drunk losers. The girls get overwhelmed and go elsewhere...so you're eventually left with a crowd of dudes.
After that, the guys say to themselves, "This sucks! There are no women!" (except for the 45 year old loser hags that are looking for an easy lay) and they move on too. Then you have an empty club. What happens? The women start coming again and the cycle completes itself.
I remember 3 or 4 years ago, this one club in Baltimore was ALWAYS jumping...EVERY girl in there was absolutely f--kable, and they were daring, too.
I went in there Saturday night and I could count the number of bangable girls on one hand. So many sagging older sluts sitting around, a few bachelorette parties full of ugly girls, and all kinds of loser dudes hoping for an easy lay. It was depressing.
I think I know where the girls went, but by the time I got in line, it was pouring down rain and I had to go home.
Better luck next time I suppose.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
What the hell are you talking about?
why do you get so damn defensive?
your friend may be partially right in that letter you posted (this is not meant as a burn)
but you insult me after i make a sarcastic remark and you question my manhood?
yes, i realize you have been here a long time and ive seen a lot of what you have posted from back in the day but the way you jus get pissed off and go nutz is not showing selfcontrol. it seems a little different from your usual charecter
and having a certain amount of self control is important in being a DJ.
id assume that you know this better than any of us.
but to suggest that we shouldnt question you or show any disregard for you in any matter just b/c youve been here longer?
thats being on your high horse
hell the reason i clicked on your post was b/c i saw it was by Dee-zy and when i saw it was just empty writing i was quite disappointed.
Haha! I like how you get all bent out of shape because of my assumptions and then go and assume things about me. You are fukkin hilarious kid!
Whats funniest of all is the fact that you brag about being here the longest like its a badge of honor. Put things in perspective for a minute Deez. You have been on this board for how long now? And you are still coming off like a whiny, name-calling AFC??? If you cant handle the slightest criticism on an internet forum , then I truly pity your performance in the real world pal.
Dee-Zy
Master Don Juan
Don - this is my last reply to you because you are seriously a waste of time. Whiny huh? I guess u are just damn of a DJ u waste your time with me, a "whiny, name-calling AFC" to quote you. Criticism? What ever you call it - I call it, jumping on others with an inch of info. Saying I'm this I'm that without even knowing who I am. As for that 'badge of honour' sh1t. Come back to me after u've been on this board for three years, THEN we'll talk. Til then, why don't you go out there, in the real world and stop wasting time on me. huh?
drixsa - yes it was questionnable. My friends have been completely penises lately N that's besides the point. I'm just tired of fools posting on this board with their heads bigger then the door frame. Telling me I'm this I'm that when they are still newbies on this board. This is who I am. I don't censord myself (N that gets me in alooooot of trouble) so if u blast me, I blast back.
N to the others - yeh, it sucked but heh. It's not my fault, I tried to aim for the best club that night and it didn't work out. oh well. I won't hide the fact that I was pissed but I can still sleep at night so.
blah. There's still next weekend - I'm not working many hours this w/e.
drixsa - yes it was questionnable. My friends have been completely penises lately N that's besides the point. I'm just tired of fools posting on this board with their heads bigger then the door frame. Telling me I'm this I'm that when they are still newbies on this board. This is who I am. I don't censord myself (N that gets me in alooooot of trouble) so if u blast me, I blast back.
N to the others - yeh, it sucked but heh. It's not my fault, I tried to aim for the best club that night and it didn't work out. oh well. I won't hide the fact that I was pissed but I can still sleep at night so.
blah. There's still next weekend - I'm not working many hours this w/e.