“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Field Rapport - THIS is the DJ lifestyle (all my plates were there)

TheGambino

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I've had one of the best days of my life yesterday. I only made good moves, good choises and I finally feel the 100% independant DJ mentality that all of you guys should live by. Stick to this forum, learn from your mistakes and work on yourself. Eventually you will feel the same thing.

I will post a explaining thread about what happened yesterday.

Women see and feel it in your attitude that you are an alpha male, that you get what you want and that your a fun guy to be around with. They sense it and I sense it too because girls flirt with you and eye you.

The girls that were at the same Latin, RnB festival in a town in our region:

Plate 1 I call her Yara: F8cking her for a month, went on several dates. High interest level. Texts me a lot. Knows im a player. HB6.5

Girl 2 I call her Anouk: This is the psychologist girl that I went out with. Had a great night, danced, had fun. Shes a HB9 in my books because shes educated, can dance, has a carreer and an amazing body that she takes care off. Shes a feminist. Tried to kiss her twice on the date but she said *it doesnt feel right. Laughed it off remember? Kept brief contact with her.

Plate 2 call her Sarah: Went on 2 dates, heavy make out sessions, didn't want to f8ck yet, too early for that she said. Quality girl but she has a kid. HB7

Old oneitis chick 3 Dyna: Went on dates years ago, went fully blown afc on her, she was my oneitis. 3 weeks ago she cracked me again after a make out session and she went to sit on my buddies lap. Making me jealous to test me. Got her back at a party last week where I ignored her and made out with other girls in front of her. Shes on the backburner for ever.


Next to these girls there were girls I know from mid school, girls that I f8cked earlier that lost interest or the other way around. Girls that I approached in the gym but never closed. A girl that rejected me when I asked for her number months ago. A lot of girls that I know.

I'm a pretty good dancer, so I went to the dancefloor to hit on some ladies. Made eye contact with so many girls, grinded some had some fun and drinks. A girl that lost interest was eyeing me the whole time, whispering with her friends and looking in my direction while I was dancing and having fun.

Saw Yara and went to dance with her. Other girl that's on the backburner was checking it out, didn't give her the time of the day. She was with her friend. Grabbed both their hands and danced with the two of them for 30 minutes. Grinding both. But going further with smelling my plates neck, she was breathing heavily.

Hours of fun passed. Saw lots of girls that I know, greeted them, had fun and went on my business with my buddy. Some tried to stick around but we ditched the ugly ones. I see girl 2, I really like this one but she rejected my kisses on the first date (not a good signal so I had a zero policy with her). She gave me 3 kisses, told her to join me inside, she said no I can't I lost my friend I got to go. I said ok and bailed. Later I see her again and pork her stomach, and smile. She totally ignores me with her friend. I bail and decided that this was the end, no single attention anymore for her.

When a girl ignores you, its easy. Bail, focus on other women, if she comes back ignore HER. Make her work for it, if she doesn't she's out.

So I had the Don Juan angels with me guys. Plate 2, Sarah texted me to come to a location. I meet up, have fun, make jokes, dance with her and make out. Another girl I know (daughter of my collegue sees that and starts to whisper with her friends, girls get attracted when they see you with other girls). After a while I take her to the middle of the crowd and we make out heavily. And guess what, thank god. Girl number 2, Anouk that ignored me walks by and see us making out. She looks a bit sad and walks along. I loved it.

I went back outside, a lot happened of course. Talked to like 3 girls that I liked and stacked 3 new phone numbers to work on.

Had some more drinks. Went outside to dance with Yara and her friend. Oneitis chick and her friend follow me around.... They come to dance behind me my buddy and the two girls the whole time. My friend said wtf man these girls are checking us out for an hour. They were trying to get my attention. But oneitis chick f8cked up with sitting on my buddies lap and ignoring me 2 weeks ago. But she saw me on another party grinding on girls and kissing girls and now again, she knows im not the old AFC, she knows im a player now.

At some point she touches my arm, I turn around and she smiles then talks further with a guy. I grab her hand, she turns around and I ignore her with a smirk on my face.
She shakes her ass to mine a couple of times to get my attention but I didn't turn around or say anything. I heard them say. ''Did he talk to you already??''

Evening goes along, dancing having fun and partying. I see 2 girls from my class, beautiful girls but I never talked to them. They see me having fun and kissing a girl. (score points) Another girl who rejected me months ago flirted with me and stared me down so i could approach. Didn't go, ignored.

And then LOL girl 2, Anouk throws herself in front of me and starts to dance like a maniac, shaking her a$$ in front of me and dancing. I ignored, looked the other way and had fun with my buddy. After a minute or two she walks away and looks at me to see my reaction, didn't even glance at her. Ignored her. She's out. Ignoring me is OUT.

Alright night passes, with more flings and fun grinds with girls.

I walk out the party with my buddy and I see oneitis chick with friend, they saw me and her friend pulled my oneitis chick back towards us. They were debating on approaching me but I didn't look at them and walked straight. They eventually turned around and walked away.

NOW THE FUNNY PART LOL

I went to eat. Went to the toilet, a beautiful red haired dime was looking for the switch to turn on the lights. I helped her and demanded her to kiss me. She said ok one kiss on your cheek. Obviousley she was flirting with me. I kissed her, closed the toilet door randomly and we made out for 15 minutes. I put my number in her cell phone. Someone knocked on the door. We were both scared but I didnt show it, I knew her bf was in the restaurant ordering food. She was so scared she said hes going to kill me. I said dont worry. My friend knocked, he saw us and LOLLED so hard. She ran like a cat away back to her bf. I pass her pork her back and bail. Didnt hear from her yet.

Sarah calls me, I take a cab to her house. I f8ck her for the first time, smoke a cigarette and leave to my house. She texts me I want to see you again.

My special thanks to this forum, to all the dedicated men on here that reminded me on so many hopeless threads years ago to be a man and never be desperate. This is the mindset that you should have. She f8cks up? Shes out. She got to know not to f8ck around with you.
Specially to guys who always tell SS members ''You get disrespect? WALK''


Any questions on why I made these choises, or if you want tips or anything be my guest.

Key things
She f8cks up, shes out.
Get on the level of DJ'ness that you can always approach a girl and escalate quickly like me. A girl that rejects you (that you obviousley like) will see you attracting ladies easily and she will become more interested.
Make them jealous when you have to.
HAVE FUN
HAVE FUN
HAVE FUN
LAUGH
POSITIVE VIBES
HAVE FUN

And girls will stalk you.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

skinnyguy

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Gambino you're already good with women. At the next stage of game, you should expect success and go only for the 9's and 10's. Cut out the women with kids.
 

Thorninmyside

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Yeah, up the ante now and go for higher quality.

Just to be a stickler, the word is report. Rapport has a different meaning.

Keep going and make the most of the confidence you have acquired.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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