"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Field rapport - f8cked up again (drunk)

TheGambino

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Went to a christmas eve party in a big club in Belgium.

My former afc's sister, plate right now was there and blowed up my phone when she heard I was there.

I had lots of female attention since I knew a lot of girls that were there.
She saw that and started to act strange when I was giving her all the attention at the party. I was drunk and acted kinda needy towards her all night (not sure though, I was really wasted). But she recognized that I got lots of female attention at the club. After a while I was dancing with her she started to chat up other guys and acted annoying towards me, she didn't want to talk. And then she told me the bf of my sister is here and he cheats on my sister. Her neece was fighting him and he hit my ''plate''. She told me that, I ignored her and chatted up other women since she was acting arrogant. I even kissed a girl in front of her all night and dancing with her because she tried to make me jealous with a friend of mine and talking to other guys. I even danced and flirted with her older neece (she was with her and her neece knows me)

She left the club at 4. Next day I texted whats up and she told me I told you my sisters friend (cheater guy) hit me and I told you! Maybe you should listen better.. Told her I didn't know (and Im not gonna fight that guy over a girl, never) about it. Told her that I got a fine for drinking and driving and talked some more.

next day today I texted her come over to my place sometime this week. She ignores me for hours now..

I always do stupid sh1t when Im drunk god damn it. I danced with her a couple of times but Im not sure if we made out, I really forgot. I know that she kinda didn't want to talk to me at a certain point and she was acting arrogant after 20minutes (when we met). Im sure I acted needy because of the alcohol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hey doctor,it hurts when i do this
Doctor:dont do this.
Know you limits,alchol can turn mighty men to whimps
 

TheGambino

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Sh1t happens, lesson for next time and I felt like drinking...

Any good tips to not further f8ck up with this broad?
 

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In fairness belgium beer is hella strong....

That being said, drunkeness is a huge demonstration of low value...

Your writing style is a little hard to follow. But from what I gathered you've significantly lowered her interest level with your drunk oafish behaviour...

Did you really get done for drink driving? Telling her so really lowered your value...

If you always do stupid things when you're drunk, why continue to get drunk?

How can you not fvck up more with this one? You don't as yet know if there is anything left to not fvck up. Drunkeness will kill interest level for some...

What advice would you give to someone else in this situation?
 
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In fairness belgium beer is hella strong....

That being said, drunkeness is a huge demonstration of low value...

Your writing style is a little hard to follow. But from what I gathered you've significantly lowered her interest level with your drunk oafish behaviour...

Did you really get done for drink driving? Telling her so really lowered your value...

If you always do stupid things when your drunk, why continue to get drunk?

How can you not fvck up more with this one? You don't as yet know if there is anything left to not fvck up. Drunkeness will kill interest level for some...

What advice would you give to someone else in this situation?
Yes I told her so and yes it happened.
Im not going to drink again. My advice would be quit reaching out, go no contact for a while and see what happens...
Thanks for the wake up call
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes I told her so and yes it happened.
Im not going to drink again. My advice would be quit reaching out, go no contact for a while and see what happens...
Thanks for the wake up call
Are you serious about not drinking again, for now?

I applaud you if so.

The drink driving is a red flag. You can be sure it will bring more problems.

Quit for now. Reassess your life priorities. Your goals etc
 
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