"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fiancee disagreeing with me often lately........

glass half full

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to the OP;
sounds like she's crossing the bridge into wanna-be-single again. This usually comes from life outside the home. There are a few ways to play this if you care about her. But you should be prepared to cut loose, and allow yourself to feel good about it, respect yourself. Remember your own self pride.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Try making a joke back like 'whatever you say sweetie'. If it continues get rid of her. She is clearly losing respect for you. How does she talk to her father? Is your financial situation deteriorating?
 
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