We have been in a long distance relationship 8 yrs. Saw each other 6 to 9 months out of each year.
Became engaged. He moved closer to me to easily meet each other a few mobths ago but he said since we were having arguments (i wanted to see him more) that he never revealed his address..not a day has gone by that we havent spoken.
Hes been avoiding me and nows hes just told me hes been sexting with women and has had sex with 12 in the past 6 months.
He used to drink and he said because of issues with us (i have not seen him in 2 years!) That he replaced sex for drinking.
Now hes remorseful..he said the guilt is eating at him and he has dreams Hes going to hell..said all women were beautiful and older and were all married or engaged.
He said he did it out of anger. At first he told me perhaps he had a sex addiction and that we could go to counseling.
Now he said hes sorting it out and doesnt want to go.
We still have not physically seen each other because he says he cant face me. But at the same time says he loves me and wants to marry.
He says hes not the same man i took to the airport 2 years ago. That i deserve better. He said if I did what hes done he would dump me.
Im in so much shock. I love this man ..he was my future..the one i dreamed of amd the first person i thought of every morning.
Im trying to understand why he did this from a male perspective..
He said he had no guilt when he did this even after seeing me calling and calling on his phone.
He said he was angry and it was just rough sex with these women and it didnt mean anything..but at the same time he said some of them he got to know for months and even a couple years ..some gave him xmas gifts!
Should i believe hes sincere? Should I trust him? Im scarred..i dont feel beautiful.
Please give opinions..im shocked..i feel like im in.a nightmare.
Became engaged. He moved closer to me to easily meet each other a few mobths ago but he said since we were having arguments (i wanted to see him more) that he never revealed his address..not a day has gone by that we havent spoken.
Hes been avoiding me and nows hes just told me hes been sexting with women and has had sex with 12 in the past 6 months.
He used to drink and he said because of issues with us (i have not seen him in 2 years!) That he replaced sex for drinking.
Now hes remorseful..he said the guilt is eating at him and he has dreams Hes going to hell..said all women were beautiful and older and were all married or engaged.
He said he did it out of anger. At first he told me perhaps he had a sex addiction and that we could go to counseling.
Now he said hes sorting it out and doesnt want to go.
We still have not physically seen each other because he says he cant face me. But at the same time says he loves me and wants to marry.
He says hes not the same man i took to the airport 2 years ago. That i deserve better. He said if I did what hes done he would dump me.
Im in so much shock. I love this man ..he was my future..the one i dreamed of amd the first person i thought of every morning.
Im trying to understand why he did this from a male perspective..
He said he had no guilt when he did this even after seeing me calling and calling on his phone.
He said he was angry and it was just rough sex with these women and it didnt mean anything..but at the same time he said some of them he got to know for months and even a couple years ..some gave him xmas gifts!
Should i believe hes sincere? Should I trust him? Im scarred..i dont feel beautiful.
Please give opinions..im shocked..i feel like im in.a nightmare.