"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Few Very important tips I found

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I was serfing the the threads I found few points that seemed important and helped my WHOLE attitude toward highschool.

1. Focus more on academics in highschool and make it a priority, you have the rest of ur life to party and get chicks but to do that u need money and a job. Good grades will promise a future. "Rather have the big cake later than a small cake now."

2. Find friends that'll bring out the best quality in you and friend those that you can learn and improve from. Having close and a few friends that'll help you out is much better than being popular by knowing 300 strangers.

3. Your reputation and popularity means NOTHING after graduation. Your employer won't care about it since it's worthless on a resume. Friends will say they'll stay in touch but the truth is THEY WONT only ur best friends will devote their time for u.

4. If you want things done do it yourself, people are selfish, why do people get mad at you? because u did something that pissed "them" off. Complaining will just waste time and energy and u'll end up feeling the same the next day.

5. Don't care about relationships in highschool, highschool girls are screwed up and their confused of what they want. You prob will NEVER see each other again so go out and experiment.

6. Drugs and alcohol, not saying it's bad just think of the consequences. You can do those once ur rich and old. If you waste all ur brain cells now you'll end like the janitor at ur school. I stopped cuz it's just a bad influence, if u need it to have a GOOD time you need to change something.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"drugs impurify your mind"

to the rest: i agree and might add:
sleep more and don't say every second sentence: oh, im soooo tired.
 

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Dogfish said:
"drugs impurify your mind"

to the rest: i agree and might add:
sleep more and don't say every second sentence: oh, im soooo tired.

This is GOLDEN!
 
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