"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Few things

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Okay things i want to get off my chest. I liked this girl over a year ago on and off since then progress includes everything besides sex.

I like her minimally she likes me a lot. I still do **** with her. But prob is I don't like her but I would be pissed off if she didn't like me no more. I know if i treat her good this probably won't happen. And i would never consider her to be my gf again.lol. But thing is I want to know ways i could not give a **** bout her and if she didn't want me.

PS. I do not like her. Well minimally
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Umm... keep messing around with her, but don't get with her.

This is "player status", you cant let feelings get in the way.
 

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Yeh how I want to keep it thanks. Though I doubt she will like somone else for a while but when she does. What should my response me. Uncaring right?
 
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