"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Few things

Menillo

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Okay things i want to get off my chest. I liked this girl over a year ago on and off since then progress includes everything besides sex.

I like her minimally she likes me a lot. I still do **** with her. But prob is I don't like her but I would be pissed off if she didn't like me no more. I know if i treat her good this probably won't happen. And i would never consider her to be my gf again.lol. But thing is I want to know ways i could not give a **** bout her and if she didn't want me.

PS. I do not like her. Well minimally
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Umm... keep messing around with her, but don't get with her.

This is "player status", you cant let feelings get in the way.
 

Menillo

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Yeh how I want to keep it thanks. Though I doubt she will like somone else for a while but when she does. What should my response me. Uncaring right?
 
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