"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Few Girls Interested in Me

HandyAndy

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Theres a few girls that happen to be cute as fvck that are showing interest in me during school. Theres only two of these girls in my class and the rest are girls I see during nutrition/lunch. I get looks from these girls everyday, theres 4 I see daily at lunch and whatnot, they are constantly looking at me and in my direction, 3 of the girls and their group of friends used to hang out at a distance and in the past couple days they basically migrated closer to me and my buddies, alot closer. I'm not sure what they are attracted to..is it my looks? My confidence? My hair? Maybe its because I'm the only guy at school with long sideburns? (hey its a possibility :D) Anyways, I'm still a little ***** at approaching and quite frankly, i have no idea what to do, i want to talk to all these girls cuz theyre reallly cute!! :cry: :nervous:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I-tallionStallion

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Go to the DJ bible handy ;) And learn to approach. Your letting all these chances go by and for what?
 

L Duke

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HandyAndy said:
Theres a few girls that happen to be cute as fvck that are showing interest in me during school. Theres only two of these girls in my class and the rest are girls I see during nutrition/lunch. I get looks from these girls everyday, theres 4 I see daily at lunch and whatnot, they are constantly looking at me and in my direction, 3 of the girls and their group of friends used to hang out at a distance and in the past couple days they basically migrated closer to me and my buddies, alot closer. I'm not sure what they are attracted to..is it my looks? My confidence? My hair? Maybe its because I'm the only guy at school with long sideburns? (hey its a possibility :D) Anyways, I'm still a little ***** at approaching and quite frankly, i have no idea what to do, i want to talk to all these girls cuz theyre reallly cute!! :cry: :nervous:

Go Direct and leave an impression.... search here and Read woodhaven's article on direct game

Sarge on...
 
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