"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Few Girls Interested in Me

HandyAndy

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Theres a few girls that happen to be cute as fvck that are showing interest in me during school. Theres only two of these girls in my class and the rest are girls I see during nutrition/lunch. I get looks from these girls everyday, theres 4 I see daily at lunch and whatnot, they are constantly looking at me and in my direction, 3 of the girls and their group of friends used to hang out at a distance and in the past couple days they basically migrated closer to me and my buddies, alot closer. I'm not sure what they are attracted to..is it my looks? My confidence? My hair? Maybe its because I'm the only guy at school with long sideburns? (hey its a possibility :D) Anyways, I'm still a little ***** at approaching and quite frankly, i have no idea what to do, i want to talk to all these girls cuz theyre reallly cute!! :cry: :nervous:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I-tallionStallion

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Go to the DJ bible handy ;) And learn to approach. Your letting all these chances go by and for what?
 

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HandyAndy said:
Theres a few girls that happen to be cute as fvck that are showing interest in me during school. Theres only two of these girls in my class and the rest are girls I see during nutrition/lunch. I get looks from these girls everyday, theres 4 I see daily at lunch and whatnot, they are constantly looking at me and in my direction, 3 of the girls and their group of friends used to hang out at a distance and in the past couple days they basically migrated closer to me and my buddies, alot closer. I'm not sure what they are attracted to..is it my looks? My confidence? My hair? Maybe its because I'm the only guy at school with long sideburns? (hey its a possibility :D) Anyways, I'm still a little ***** at approaching and quite frankly, i have no idea what to do, i want to talk to all these girls cuz theyre reallly cute!! :cry: :nervous:

Go Direct and leave an impression.... search here and Read woodhaven's article on direct game

Sarge on...
 
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