"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fetishes?

LonesomeLoser

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I have a fetish for tickling women, especially their feet. It isn't something I do to get in some kino or just something I do to clown around. When I see a HB it's all I want to do to her. Now I do have a desire for sex and I can appreciate a nice set of t!ts or a nice round butt on a woman, things that have nothing to do with tickling. But I'd say as far as what I desire to do when I see a HB, I'd say its about 90% tickling, 10% sex. It may even be more lopsided than that. Thus far the only times I've been able to indulge my tickling fetish has been by paying strippers and women at massage spas to let me tickle them.

In a normal scenario a guy approaches a woman in a bar or whatever, and ultimately they both want the same thing - sex. He wants to fvck, she wants to fvck....she may not want to fvck him, but she wants to fvck somebody. So they both want the same thing. But in my case I want something that the average HB walking down the street isn't going to get much pleasure out of. So basically I see a HB and I want to do something to her that is for my own pleasure only, unless its a woman I've developed oneitis for. That's really the only time I actually care if a female gets any enjoyment at all out of an interaction with me.

So I just wanted to ask if there are any other guys here who have fetishes, involving doing things to women that really only you would get enjoyment out of? Something that puts you in the position of trying to get something from the woman without her really getting anything in return? If so, how have you been able to get your fetishes indulged without having to pay for it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PrinceBeavis

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One thing's for sure, nowadays; anything you can possibly think of, someone is into it. There's people who are into chicks blowing up balloons. ...whether she's nude or dressed, or if she pops the balloon or not, depends on the individual.
There's got to be some females who are into being tickled...somewhere out there.

I've heard that tickling is a form of sadism and torture. So maybe, without realizing it, you have some issues with women?
 

gigi1

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yes, i used to have a foot fetish but it winded down a bit these days for some odd reason.

anyway in my foot fetish hey days i used to really like to suck women's toes.

it got me laid plenty of times. since sucking toes is the grey zone (it's not sex but it's very erotic), and women get great pleasure from it, i used to do the 'i wanna suck your toes, you're gonna love it, it's not sex so you have nothing to worry about' thing. then they would get so aroused that i would have sex with them as well.

so win-win for everyone. i even got girlfriends from this. i used it as an 'opener' as well. it wasn't a tactic, i just really wanted to suck their toes.
 
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