"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fetch Theory

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Fetch Theory
by Smooth Player 056

Have you ever witnessed a stick being thrown FAR away and the dog runs, no less than a second
after you threw it? As with animals, this works for women as well, especially in keeping and
assesing high interest levels.

A way to apply "Fetch" theory, is to to tell her partialy about something, but switch
onto something else. For example, "Oh yeah it was so interesting, I know this will make
you laugh so hard....wait a sec are we going to the movies at 8 or 9?" I have field
tested this, and 80% of the time they will not remember you were going to tell them the
interesting and hilarious story, yet hours or even days later they start begging to know the
story. Sub consciencely you are planting seeds in her head when you say "hilarious" "interesting"
"fun" to describe the story...and these seeds are conected with YOU.

If she still asks you about the story and doesnt forget, tell her its too interesting to tell
her now...but youll tell her later if SHE reminds you.

I have also gotten kisses and make-outs, just to have me tell them the story.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Interesting, but you would have to already have the date if you say "what time at the movies 8 or 9"


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Dude...that was an example...you could have said anything (what are you doing this weekend, whats your favorite color, how was school, was the math test hard)....Besides this technique is used to gain interest level in a girl weather you have a date or not.
 
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