"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Interesting study with a lot of potential applications for an observant DJ. I've met Martie Hasselton on several occasions and she's a pioneer in this field. She's got her nuts & bolts behavioral psych methods down very well.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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True, but if you had occasion to see a particular woman over the course of her menstrual cycle and payed attention you might be able to figure it out.
 

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There's this asian lady that works the checkout counter at a chinese carry-out nearby, and she's not bad looking. When I first started seeing her I thought she may be the type who doesn't like americans or she just seemed to be in a relatively bad mood most of the time, not too bad, just a little unpleasant. Then one day, out of nowhere, when my food is ready she's all smiles and comments on how fast my food was prepared.

I was a bit shocked that she was being so ******dly friendly. I thought it was because she was probably used to seeing me, but the following week, she was back to her old self. Then, again, I come in on another day and she's really polite, smiling and everything, and says "goodbye" when I leave.

It seems "cyclic", could it be that when she's pleasant she's ovulating?
 

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next time ask her if shes ovulating.

if she acts insulted just say that you were enjoying her pleasant demeanor and that you read an article blah blah blah...

worse that happens is that she punches you in the face.

at leats you'll have a funny memory from it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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