"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've always been inclined to use weapons form as a method of exercise and fitness. Recently I've been thinking alot about fencing. I was wondering if anyone had any knowledge of the subject and the benifits it provides. I'm thinking mostly about sabre and (if it's taught) cutlass.

Does anyone have any experience in the feild? Any tips pointers and knowledge would be helpful.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bump
Anybody?? Anything??? I'm dead serious
 

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cutlass is not taught

sabre is real hard and fast and complicated and expensive

foil is for poofs :p - i mean who wants to use a training weapon competitively.

epee is a genius weapon, first hit = the point. Plus u get really big strong swords so u can hurt your opponent :p, although of course, thats not the aim.

It skews up the muscle distribution on your legs. The muscle on one (i think its normally the back) tends to get bigger as you are using it for propulsion and pushing.

good for CV fitness
 

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I've taken kendo in the past, in fact I've taken quite a few japanese weapons forms.


Thanks for the advice JSH! I still think I want to give sabre a shot but I'd better start with foils first. Bonus epee, I'll be sure to look into that further and give it some serious concideration. Nothing like channeling anger in a positive way to make yourself stronger.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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