"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Normally, I try to avoid stuff like this, as it's often just not worth it. But sometimes, I can't help myself.

--Link is broken due to censor, replace the asterisks with the 'b' word.
http://*****magazine.org/post/subur...a-list-of-their-favorite-feminist-celebrities

"3. Mindy Kaling: When I asked my students if they ever watch The Office, a few of them had only seen handful of episodes. However, they all know who Mindy Kaling is. One of my sophomore students noted, "It is so refreshing to see a young woman of color who is not ashamed to be normal-sized and who is also super funny." (My students are the smartest, huh?)"

"It is so refreshing to see a young woman of color who is not ashamed to be normal-sized and who is also super funny."

"not ashamed to be normal-sized"

"normal-sized"

*sigh*

http://cdn03.cdn.justjared.com/wp-c...-levitt-late-show-with-david-letterman-09.jpg

I accidentally came across that site, while doing sparknotes for a paper I have to write. That's how EASY it was to get to. Ridiculous. I don't even want to look at the site.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Feminists.

*shakes head*

The only thing would be worse than "normal sized" is "plus sized" or "comfortable with her own body."

They are all excuses as to why women don't need to be thin, dress nicely, or otherwise put any effort into making themselves look good for men.

Again, I just love society in the 50s, 60s, and 70s so much. It was a man's culture and everything was designed to make things maximally enjoyable for MEN, including smoking sections and hot waitresses with short skirts on airplanes, encouraging women to be virgins, making it socially unacceptable for women to do anything other than teach and do secretarial work (encouraging them to stay home and raise families).

It was just awesome in every possible way. Anyway, yeah that is a pretty disgusting picture. Her knees, my gosh. She should stick to radio.
 

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I didnt know the new definition of "normal-sized" is "****ing disgusting pig."

You learn something new on SS EVERY FRICKIN DAY! Yay!
 

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Men need to stop apologizing, cowering and flinching around feminists. That's the problem. If all men would loudly and proudly shame these fat pigs without apology things would change.

Most men today are afraid of women. I see it every single day.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No idea who Mindy Kaling is - but a quick google of her resulted in a woman that doesn't look like a fat whale to me...

She is ugly as fvck though...

Which is harder to fix...


As far as feminist, ugly women, fat women, women who annoy me, and/or women I'm not attracted to - - - I don't give a fvck what they do with their lives, and therefor don't spend my time worrying about such nonsense....

Better to focus on the ones who I'm attracted to....

You can't fix the world cupcakes...
 

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PlayHer Man said:
Men need to stop apologizing, cowering and flinching around feminists. That's the problem. If all men would loudly and proudly shame these fat pigs without apology things would change.

Most men today are afraid of women. I see it every single day.
Most men are afraid of women

and this is only getting worse

they believe they SHOULD be afraid of women

Mindy is a disgusting cow whose snarky/sarcastic humor exists to masquerade her ugliness....any women who defends her is beyond hope...a man who defends her is a brainwashed faggot.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
Men need to stop apologizing, cowering and flinching around feminists. That's the problem. If all men would loudly and proudly shame these fat pigs without apology things would change.

Most men today are afraid of women. I see it every single day.
+1.

Keep on preaching that, brother, everywhere you go. We need to wake enough men up so that critical mass for change is reached.
 

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Bokanovsky said:
For a 21st century American female, that is normal.
Yup...

In 20 years - American's (as a whole/men+women) have increased in size by roughly 15 lbs! In 40 years, it's 25+ lbs.

We are getting bigger as a society.

And it's not hard to see why.

Lots of people/corporations/governments benefit from a society of lazy cows who's soul purpose is to consume and create more cattle (offspring) to consume on an even greater scale.

I doubt this trend will continue though. I just don't see how it can. The bubble has to burst eventually. One way or another.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Pleasantly plump", "healthy weighed", "a real woman", "a natural woman", "Rubenesque", "big boned", "plus sized", "big girl", "curvy", and others that slipped my mind all = fat with an option package of ugly.

The first ones to protest are the fugly ones and the skinny ones with fat friends.

And do me a favor, feministas...stop telling men where to stick their kawks.
 
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