"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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feminists monopolize the right to complain

Burroughs

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The use of the word whining defines male shaming at its very core: an attack on ones masculinity.
Real men don't whine, therefore…
It is an attempt to shut down or control anything that does not fit the world view (or agenda) of the person issuing the shaming.

Women have historically enjoyed the ability to complain openly about matters they do not like without criticism.
Whining implies senseless, victim behavior. Complaining for the sake of complaining.

Men discussing issues of concern that need to be addressed are not whining.

Women (feminists in particular) would like to have ownership on the right to complain.

Men just need to remain quiet and man up.

Theyll let us know what it and is not a problem and how we need to fix it. :)

/sarcasm
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Burroughs said:
The use of the word whining defines male shaming at its very core: an attack on ones masculinity.
Real men don't whine, therefore…
It is an attempt to shut down or control anything that does not fit the world view (or agenda) of the person issuing the shaming.

Women have historically enjoyed the ability to complain openly about matters they do not like without criticism.
Whining implies senseless, victim behavior. Complaining for the sake of complaining.

Men discussing issues of concern that need to be addressed are not whining.

Women (feminists in particular) would like to have ownership on the right to complain.

Men just need to remain quiet and man up.

Theyll let us know what it and is not a problem and how we need to fix it. :)

/sarcasm
This is one of those topics I've always wondered about. Society deems it improper for men to have feelings. In response, many men will repress their stress and anger to the point of illness. Then society shames men who act violently toward their family members, drink, watch porn, and employ other unhealthy outlets because hey, you're a pvssy if you cry. So therefore, the only socially acceptable (non shaming) outlet as a man is to exercise.

On the other side of the coin, it's perfectly OK for women to behave like complete *******s in any context because their "biology" exempts them from the rules. This reality is further propagated by the pvssy starved beta enablers with their desperation and nonexistent self esteem.

Feminists not only want ownership of whining, they want ownership of everything until it no longer suits personal ends at which time they can play the "I'm a woman" card and shove off responsibility to the man without consequence.

Truly interesting times we live in :) Oh wait, I'm whining.
 
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