"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Feminist suggesting it is okay to lead men on / not warn them she has a bf.

SeymourCake

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Why? Because male privilege.

http://www.eberhardtsmith.com/stop-saying-i-have-a-boyfriend

Male privilege is “I have a boyfriend” being the only thing that can actually stop someone from hitting on you because they respect another male-bodied person more than they respect your rejection/lack of interest.

The idea that a woman should only be left alone if she is “taken” or “spoken for” (terms that make my brain twitch) completely removes the level of respect that should be expected toward that woman. It completely removes the agency of the woman, her ability to speak for herself and make her own decisions regarding when and where the conversation begins or ends.
Basically let's make all men feel like s*** by making them feel uninteresting as opposed to the alternative of the woman possibly liking him but already attracted to/by someone else. Make all these confident people into shy and self-deprecating dweebs and then the already-shy will never ask anyone out for fear of being bluntly told how he's not charming, witty, sexy, or otherwise attractive
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AttackFormation

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I don't think there's anything wrong with what she's saying in itself, it makes sense. It's just that she probably doesn't care about the male perspective, she likely doesn't have a good idea of what typically attracts a girl to a guy ("polite conversation" lol), she views herself as a victim and can turn anything into male chauvinism/privilege, she probably views most/all men as more or less scum/pests ("unwanted comeons" as if men are some kind of alien menace) and so on.

One thing is for sure and that is she won't be complaining about this stuff when she's middle-aged and not even her beat-down husband looks in her direction anymore.
 

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This all simply boils down to alpha fux/beta bux strategy. You'll notice all these screeching womens articles, blogs, gov policies are just ways to make this transition easier for women and more accepting to the general public.

When you cut the BS and get to the root of it this trend can't be missed. It's all about "how can we make alfa fux/beta bux easier for women". And it works, so why not? There's always going to be taxpaying herblings nodding in resentful agreement eager to show he's doing his bit to "smash the patriarchy"... coz patriarchy and stuff.
 

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I'm surprised she didn't blow her rape whistle.
 
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