"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Feminism is mens fault/ No Fap

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The current state of women is the fault of men. We let our sexuality rule us. We forgot to be dominant over these women. We let them get away with anything because we are slaves to sex. I have been doing No Fap for a while. It has helped me break my addiction to female sexuality. The power of vagina has become less and less. I can more clearly set boundaries on the females in my life because their one trump card of sexuality has no hold over me.

A general principle of the universe states that how people behave towards you is a reflection of how you feel about yourself. We allow disrespect by not walking away. Men went along with this govt sponsored feminist/ free love movement because we thought it would get us more sex. It ended up destroying everything. If we had taken control of our sex drive and put principles over pu**y, then we would not be in this situation.

We are over sexualized in the United States. This over sexualization is making us vulnerable. We need to gain our power back. No fap is one of many ways to do this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Disagree....the real problem is just men being pussies and passive aggressive white knights. So many men white knight all the freakin time.....it's disgusting. Treat feminist *****s the same way women treat short ugly men....with no regard nor mercy. I'm tall by the way...just giving you a frame of reference.
 

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The current state of women is the fault of men. We let our sexuality rule us.
I don't think it's so simple.

Women start offering the free hoo ha, it's a bit unrealistic to expect men, en masse, to simply pass.

It'd be like showing up at your friends house every might with endless free pizza and beer, and then blaming him for being fat.

Dudes are programmed to be horny all the time and get some at any opportunity.

Human instincts are pretty hard to ignore.

I believe feminism, mgtow, incel, etc. are all symptoms of the same general societal collapse.
 

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Bro, no. If you don’t want to be controlled by *****, just have some self-respect. It’s fine to want *****, but it’s not fine to give her your balls for it. If she ever wants you to do something just for her *****, as in, “if you do this, you might get lucky baby...”, that’s just humiliation, and she should get ***** slapped right then and there. SHE is the one getting lucky with you. She should want to suck you off and lick your ballsack, etc. This is just what’s meant to be natural—men are MEANT to dominate women. That’s why they love being sexually degraded.
 

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I don't understand how not playing with your d!ck is going to have any impact on feminism?

This is what you can do =

#1 Stop liking her social media
#2 Call her out for being a retard
#3 Stand your ground in disagreement
#4 Put yourself and your interests first
#5 Don't apologize for liking pvssy
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If people would start using their brains, instead of the wang...things would be different. The problem is 'not thinking.'

You can't fix stupid. Because, people are lazy, and thinking is the hardest work of all.

ref:

 

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Nofap has a purpose but it's not for everyone.

Say you take 3 guys

One is a raging alcoholic
The other is a fairly heavy drinker
The last just has the odd beer here and there

One of those guys will see massive change from quitting booze

The middle one might see a bit of improvement

The last guy won't see ****

Nofap guys need to understand this before trying to claim every guy needs to do it, some guys DONT use porn as a sex substitute
 

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I don't understand how not playing with your d!ck is going to have any impact on feminism?

This is what you can do =

#1 Stop liking her social media
#2 Call her out for being a retard
#3 Stand your ground in disagreement
#4 Put yourself and your interests first
#5 Don't apologize for liking pvssy
This is the most important in my opinion, it kills their irrational arrogance while showing they dont have any out of jail card for their uncalled mistakes.

I kid you not I turned arrogant aggressive cvnts into bearable individuals by simply pointing at their mistakes and asking them if they happened to have a support special needs teacher when they were kids.
 

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Disagree....the real problem is just men being pussies and passive aggressive white knights. So many men white knight all the freakin time.....it's disgusting. Treat feminist *****s the same way women treat short ugly men....with no regard nor mercy. I'm tall by the way...just giving you a frame of reference.
Why are they being passive white knights? It is because of sex. If you abstain from giving into sexual desires they eventually calm down. You can transmute this sexual energy into more productive parts of your life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Its a seething problem IMO rotting our culture. There is very little accountability for the female these days.

The commercials in the Super Bowl were loud and clear.
Someday maybe a century a way maybe they will be forced back into submission. Who knows.

We have to adjust to it it seems its a massive movement.
I agree bro. They are like children. If you allow a child to run the household it will be a messed up house. The only way they will be forced back into submission is if the parents ( men) take a stand.
 
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I don't think it's so simple.

Women start offering the free hoo ha, it's a bit unrealistic to expect men, en masse, to simply pass.

It'd be like showing up at your friends house every might with endless free pizza and beer, and then blaming him for being fat.

Dudes are programmed to be horny all the time and get some at any opportunity.

Human instincts are pretty hard to ignore.

I believe feminism, mgtow, incel, etc. are all symptoms of the same general societal collapse.
I used to think like this up to about a month ago. Dudes are programmed to be horny but men are not programmed to be this horny. We are very over sexualized in the West. I used to think it was normal but it is not normal. We have porn, yoga pants, sexually explicit music etc. This all plays into the female agenda.

Men are programmed to be horny but a mans greatest asset is his discipline and his logic. We unlike women, are not slaves to our biology. I dont care what evolutionary biologist say ( I used to be one of them I got a bachelor of science in plant science and I used to be an avid biologist). Those guys are all wrong. We are not just animals that are slaves to our instincts. We are part animal and part spirit. Our spiritual side has the ability to transcend our lust.

I do agree with you that it is very difficult to ignore our sexual urges. If a prime Vida Guerra asked me to become her simp in order to smash I would have a very hard time saying no. But that self control is what separates boys from men. Women are ultimately attracted to the man that can control his sexuality. If you cant control your sexuality you will be easily manipulated by women.
 

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If you want to end feminism, then start a war against it. Be proactive and who knows, maybe the universe might use you as a beacon of light.

But if you don’t have that type of will, then there is no point complaining about it endlessly.

There is enough variety that you can actually experience what you want to experience while allowing others to experience what they want to experience Regardless if what they want to experience is actually good for them.

You took full responsibility. That’s good. And you realize that people that show up in your life are a reflection of you. That’s also good. Now take the next step.

Keep bettering yourself until ONLY cool people show up. You have the power to do this. It is the next logical step.
I agree to large extent bro. The outer world is a reflection of your inner world. We often complain about this chicks because we dont want to do the work it takes to control ourselves. WE men caused this mess by not standing up to the puppet masters and social engineers. I am not saying stand up violently. I am saying if we all changed ourselves then feminism would have nothing to feed off. Women manipulate us because we allow them to. The reason we allow them to do it is because we lack self love, self validation and we are slave to vagina.

Once you free yourself from needing sexual validation from a woman, then you are on your way to changing your whole experience. This is very difficult and takes a lot of inner work. It is easier to just blame women.
 

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It's funny, but I never had a man complain that I saved him from disaster. I guess it's ok to rescue someone you don't wanna f uck? Yeah, it's pathetic, if the only reason you ever help someone is that you're hoping to get laid, but I sometimes wonder whether these guys always b itching about White Knighting would ever help anyone. I mean, clearly, if they saw a pretty young girl getting gangraped in an alley, they'd keep walking, because...white knighting. But, would the same hold true for a 90 year old woman or a 9 year old little girl? Would they help another man who was being murdered?
Not quite sure what you are saying ShePays? It sounds interesting, do you care to re word that please?
 

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Bro, no. If you don’t want to be controlled by *****, just have some self-respect. It’s fine to want *****, but it’s not fine to give her your balls for it. If she ever wants you to do something just for her *****, as in, “if you do this, you might get lucky baby...”, that’s just humiliation, and she should get ***** slapped right then and there. SHE is the one getting lucky with you. She should want to suck you off and lick your ballsack, etc. This is just what’s meant to be natural—men are MEANT to dominate women. That’s why they love being sexually degraded.
I agree. But you cant have self respect if you are also a slave to your lust. A poster on here used to have a signature that saids something to the effect of " you are a slave to what you can not say no to". You cant just dominate a woman but then be addicted to her sex. Who is really the dominant one in that case?

This is why NoFap is so crucial. It teaches you sexual discipline.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The current state of women is the fault of men. We let our sexuality rule us. We forgot to be dominant over these women. We let them get away with anything because we are slaves to sex. I have been doing No Fap for a while. It has helped me break my addiction to female sexuality. The power of vagina has become less and less. I can more clearly set boundaries on the females in my life because their one trump card of sexuality has no hold over me.

A general principle of the universe states that how people behave towards you is a reflection of how you feel about yourself. We allow disrespect by not walking away. Men went along with this govt sponsored feminist/ free love movement because we thought it would get us more sex. It ended up destroying everything. If we had taken control of our sex drive and put principles over pu**y, then we would not be in this situation.

We are over sexualized in the United States. This over sexualization is making us vulnerable. We need to gain our power back. No fap is one of many ways to do this.
Never heard of such a thing. Why would you, or any other AFC allow a lady's p ussy control you? That's crazy. Stop being weak and be a real dude. When the dude controls the relationship, things are cool. When the b itch gets out of hand, you put her back or you walk. It's really not that hard. It dumbfounds me how any dude can be a slave to da pus. B itch ain't behaving or is out of line, she's talked to once about it and if it happens again, I walk. It's my one strike rule. You dudes should follow it. It will make your dating life much easier. As for no fap? Only losers do this no fap BS. In all seriousness, a dude needs to ejaculate at least one to two times per week. Helps clean out the tubes and prevent prostate cancer.

My goal in life is to be the best I can be for me, not a lady, ME. That is what all dudes should strive for.. BE LIKE ME. Just kidding, they need to have a purpose or goal and focus on that. If they want to f uck around with a b itch, great. Enjoy your turn and leave when it's appropriate. Any dude who cow-tows to a lady is dead meat in her eyes as she will start to lose respect. The the dude could start playing the chasing the dragon game with his lady friend. Never a good place to be.
 

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I don't understand how not playing with your d!ck is going to have any impact on feminism?

This is what you can do =

#1 Stop liking her social media
#2 Call her out for being a retard
#3 Stand your ground in disagreement
#4 Put yourself and your interests first
#5 Don't apologize for liking pvssy
Every times to masturbate to porn you are playing right into the hands of the gynocracy. Feminism controls men because of our sexuality. Porn just makes our horniness worse. Porn is the worship of women. You are increasing their power. It makes you crave sex even more.

In addition to teaching sexual discipline, NoFap also has a host of other really beneficial properties. I will list just a few here.

1.) You can transmute that sexual energy into other more productive things

2.) You can actually relate to women as people thus decreasing their power

3.) It makes you more energetic/ less fatigued

4.) Semen retention contributes to mental sharpness

5.) Legendary pro boxers and MMA fighters do not have sex in the weeks leading up to fights
 

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Never heard of such a thing. Why would you, or any other AFC allow a lady's p ussy control you? That's crazy. Stop being weak and be a real dude.
Bro what are you talking about? You say you have never heard of puzzy controlling men? Stop it bruh. There are whole songs about this. The song The Power of P.U.S.S.Y by Jay-z and R.Kelly. You never heard of the phrase " puzzy pass or vagina pass". Or how about the Trojan War that was started over puzzy.

I respect you as a poster but I feel like you are intentionally being obstinate and intellectually dishonest. Please dont piss me off. I want this to be a constructive debate brother.

If puzzy was not the main motivator for most males you would not even be on this site. This is a damn seduction site and you are on it. That proves that puzzy at least at one point controlled you too.
 

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I'm saying that a lot of guys would call rescuing a girl from being gangraped, "white knighting," but wouldn't mind getting their own a55es rescued from a s hit stomping. When I hear that, I smell pu55y. Plain enough?
Men have a natural inclination to protect women and children. I dont know if many men would call rescuing a girl from being gangraped white knighting lol. I hope even the worst incels would step in to protect a girl being raped. Are you a male or female btw..just curious
 

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Gotya brother. Yeh I mean I am conflicted on the whole White Knighting thing myself. If I saw a girl getting beaten by her boyfriend I would be reluctant to step in. There are 3 reasons for this.

1.) In EMS they tell you to not attack the male in a domestic violence situation. Sometimes if you attack the male, the woman starts to fight you even if you are trying to defend her!! Isn't that insane?

2.) Even if you do beat up the guy, the girl will often go back to the guy within the next few days.

3.) They guy may beat you up or stab you to death
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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