"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Feminine Or Athletic Women?

Dilberto

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As all we men know- femmes.....or "girly-girls," wear make-up; like showing their pretty feet off with sandals; wear pink; gossip; are outspoken; use the cellphone all day long....and are often VERY hot.

Athletic girls by contrast, wear almost no makeup; love sports; are very book smart(mostly); wear their hair back; dress very conservatively, and are reserved. In many cases- their beauty often goes un-noticed.

I have had many girly-girls before. At first glance, they are mesmerizing. However, in a relationship- they are often jealous, insecure, emotional and even vindictive. Success with a femme, requires alot of tolerance(of female quirks) and understanding. Since I am now looking for the more confident, athletic type......please help me complete the rest of this sentence(about athletic type women)!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bigjohnson

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Those are two of the most useless stereotypes I've ever seen. First, many jock chicks are dumb as a stick, not book smart. I don't know where you got a jock and a nerd mixed together. Second, lots of "girly-girls" are flabby even if they are small, and just don't look good without the wrapper on. Hot? Hahahaha.

Can you rephrase the question so it makes some semblance of sense?
 

guywhoneedshelp

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I'll tell you something, I always seem to want what I can't have.

I got with a girl who had so much free time because she didn't work or do anything productive, and at first I was like "This is awesome. I can see her whenever I want."

Then I'd see a busy, motivated hot chick and be like "I need a girl like that, she could probably relate to me better."

The girl jogging on the street looked so much more attractive when I had a girlfriend who didn't exercise. But patheticness is a turn on suddenly when I get with a girl who is a social butterfly. Then when I'm with the pathetic, quiet, girl with no life, I want the outgoing chick.

Solution: Spin plates. It is my belief that no one woman can satisfy every need that I have.
 

magickarl

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Ideally, the girl can keep her self in shape and look pretty at the same time.

Think cheerleader or dancer.

There are plenty of glamor girls who go jogging or like to swim/play tennis/do something.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dilberto said:
As all we men know- femmes.....or "girly-girls," wear make-up; like showing their pretty feet off with sandals; wear pink; gossip; are outspoken; use the cellphone all day long....and are often VERY hot.

Athletic girls by contrast, wear almost no makeup; love sports; are very book smart(mostly); wear their hair back; dress very conservatively, and are reserved. In many cases- their beauty often goes un-noticed.

I have had many girly-girls before. At first glance, they are mesmerizing. However, in a relationship- they are often jealous, insecure, emotional and even vindictive. Success with a femme, requires alot of tolerance(of female quirks) and understanding. Since I am now looking for the more confident, athletic type......please help me complete the rest of this sentence(about athletic type women)!

I am now looking for the more confident, athletic type............who still is feminine, and loves looking sexy.

I usually go for a girl mixture of both. I know what you mean, but at the same type these are stereotypes.


Athletic girls aka tomboys?? make really good best friends and wifes, and they are usually stable and love doing guy things, but at the same time they can be boring and predictable, and are usually treated as one of the guys. They make having a relationship really easy, and most dont mind you talking to your female friends. They are usually supportive of you and they love taking care of there man. They can be very fun to hangout with, and usually love wearing the pants in the relationship, and are usually driven, logical, and conservative. They get angry instead of sad usually. They tend to get along with everyone, and a problem is that they have WAY to many guy friends and very few female friends, and most of the guys want to bang her. Way harder to attract then the girly girl usually since they don't fall in love that easily since they don't think with there feelings much, the good thing is that they dont cause much drama, and are usually more honest and don't play too much games.. it takes a while to have sex with them, but they are usually very wild and untamed in bed. They tend to be relaxed and are easy to be friends with. There greatest fear is to be seen as a slut, and that they are taken advantage of. There focus is personality and action, and value personality and friendship really high



Girly girls
are usually more emotional, and usually dress very feminine, and say OMG! and talk about feelings too much. some have Princess Syndrome and demand attention all the time. They usually have way more female friends than male, and they are more likely to give you syht tests and flake. They usually talk talk talk, and since they have a bigger girl network, they often get advice from their friends on what to do in the relationship. They also usually ask there friends if you are worthy and attractive, and they tend to believe in "Prince Charming" and finding there true love, believe in Disneyism and compete with each other for guys, and love to shop usually, and value status in men. Most of the males in there life are chasing them, and these girls few male friends are usually gay guys or really feminine or oneitis men. Hard to be friends with, and sometimes are hard to understand. They tend to become jealous when you talk to your female friends, and love having girls night out. Guilty of one night stands and first date sex. They judge each others boyfriends, and are usually huge flirts.There biggest fear is to be the ugly one in the group, and that they have low status. They focus is mostly on there looks and emotions, value image and attention really high


This is just a generalization, every girl is different, and there are girly girls who love sports. I love a mixture of both
 

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athletic and nerdy girls seem to be mixed together in ur discription of them?, i prefer girls who are still femine but also pretty athletic, involved in sports and also toned.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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